7 Ways To Bond With Your Newborn

7 Ways To Bond With Your Newborn

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Having an infant can be overwhelming. In the early days, it can seem baffling to find things to do with this tiny little person who is completely dependent upon you. These fun activities to do with an infant can provide you with some sweet bonding time with your new baby.

1. Do family showers.

Family showers can be a life-saver in the early days when you wonder if you’ll ever get to shower again. Mom, Dad, and baby can all shower together so you’ll get some much needed time with your spouse and a nice shower. A bonus is a lot of babies are soothed by the sound of the water as well. (I used to play running water videos on YouTube for hours to calm my baby down). We would take turns standing out of the water stream holding our daughter while the other showered and then switch. It was sad when she got too big and wiggly to do this anymore. You can also take a bath with your baby if you’re into baths.

2. Take monthly photos.

Maybe this won’t make the list when I’m a second-time mom, but I’ve really enjoyed it the first time around. Get something you can use each month so that you can see how big your baby is getting. A lot of people buy blankets that allow you to circle the month. Others make the month out of certain flowers. I used a giant teddy bear that I prop near her. It’s fun to do a little mini photo shoot — plus it gives you a chance to use all the fancy cute clothes that just aren’t practical for everyday wear.

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3. Take nature walks.

Getting outside is so important. Staying cooped up inside can make both you and baby stir crazy. Even if it’s just walking around your front or backyard, get outside. Show them the plants, leaves, flowers, rocks, while all of this seems mundane to you it’s all new to them. In the early days, we’d just walk down the little pathway at our apartment to get some sunshine. Now we take neighborhood adventures in the stroller. She loves just looking around. Last week, I introduced her to honeysuckles, one of my favorite flowers to play with as a kid.

4. Have a song (real and/or made up) that is just yours.

Early on, I started singing to my baby. For us, it was “Head, shoulders, knees, and toes.” It was just something fun we could do to pass a little time and it felt educational. Even as a little baby, she began to recognize the movements of the song and would smile in anticipation of me running my hands over her head for the head part. We still sing it now and will for years to come. I didn’t let anyone else sing this with her as it’s our special bonding song.

You can use a silly song or a sweet lullaby if you’re musically gifted. We also had a few fun made up songs we would sing as we did different things in our routine. They just help to make them a little more fun.

5. Babywear.

Babywearing can be a life saver. You can keep baby close while having two hands to move around the house. It’s also great for at the store when they are too little to sit in the basket, or if you just want to avoid those germy baskets.

Bonus: Baby will often go to sleep in the carrier so you get some hands free time and baby gets a nap! Babywearing can also be great at parties or events as people are less likely to try to touch if they have to invade your personal space.

6. Read books together.

No, my daughter is sadly not some child prodigy reading at 7 months old. However, she does enjoy when we read books. She likes to look at the pages and stare closely at the words, even though they have no meaning yet. They say it’s important for babies to hear lots of words so read away. Enjoy the fact that you get to choose the book and read a large variety. Before you know it, your child will be demanding you read the same one over and over again.

7. Hold them while they sleep.

You can’t spoil an infant. If you have the time, hold them for naps sometimes. Enjoy the sweet snuggles because soon they won’t want to snuggle with you anymore. Soon when you want to cuddle they’ll push you away. Infancy is short lived and you can’t get the time back so make every moment count.

Enjoy making some great memories with your little one. Babies are hard wor,k but it’s a short season in life and will be over before you know it.