07 · 17 · 2008

A Tale of Two Bears

Meet Bo-Bo.
Ben befriended him about a year ago and has been attached ever since. Bo-Bo is a necessity at nap and bedtime and a constant companion in and out of the house. Once the two of them became tight, in a genius mother move, I found another “Bo-Bo” on e-bay. He’d been discontinued and I wanted to be sure to have a spare in case he ever got left on an airplane or thrown off a boat or somehow misplaced. I alternate between the two so they both are faded, stinky and well loved. I can’t even tell who is the real one and who is the impostor.

So smart, right? Right.

Wanna know what wasn’t not so smart? Leaving the spare Bo-Bo in the closet so that Ben could discover him and gleefully announce “another Bo-Bo? We have two?!!”

Damn it. Guess I wasn’t cut out for the whole genius thing after all.

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1 Janine July 17, 2008 at 9:57 pm

Doh!
Yeah, I’m not good at putting things away either. My children ALWAYS discover them. Sigh.

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2 Tiffany July 17, 2008 at 10:04 pm

This is so funny… of course he found it…

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3 Scott July 18, 2008 at 3:47 am

When he found the Faux-Bo you should have explained that that was Co-Co, Bo-Bo’s brother from back in Tennessee and he was just visiting for the day. Then Daddy takes Co-Co the Faux-Bo to ‘the airport’ the next morning and you’re all set.
Too bad there isn’t a professional public relations person in the house to have helped. Oh, wait…

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4 Colleen July 18, 2008 at 4:20 am

Regardless, it was still a brilliant idea!

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5 Scary Mommy July 18, 2008 at 4:28 am

Damn it, Scott. That was perfect. I’m going to begin the phase-out today using that story! Bye, bye, Co-Co.

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6 Swirlyarts July 18, 2008 at 4:51 am

We also had two Bozo bears for my elder daughter but she is now 4 and 1 Bo was much more worn than the other so we couldn’t use both of them. Then Boris came to visit – he’s Bo’s cousin and he is now my younger daughters teddy!

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7 Tash July 18, 2008 at 5:26 am

So funny. Damn smart move in the first place. Slight slip up in the hiding department.

Stinker has a bear that’s so freaky looking he calls him Buggy but thankfully Buggy didn’t go anywhere with him. Just needed him at bedtime.

Good luck with Co-Co’s trip to the airport

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8 Mrs. Who July 18, 2008 at 5:46 am

You are very smart. When my daughter was small, she left her very well-loved and worn Care Bear at a local Taco Tico. We went back instantly but I shudder to think what would have happened if someone had kidnapped Cheer Bear.

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9 Tara@From Dawn Till Rusk July 18, 2008 at 6:02 am

Have you not learned by now that nothing you can do in motherhood will ever EVER go as planned? The minute you accept that it all becomes kinda easy!

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10 Angie July 18, 2008 at 6:08 am

My daughter is obsessed with her penguin, Charlie. Thankfully we bought him at our local aquarium, but as luck would have it, they’ve NEVER stocked that particular style of penguin again. I’m screwed if Charlie ever disappears.

Good luck with phasing out “Co-Co”!

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11 Avery July 18, 2008 at 6:26 am

same thing happened to us…2 bun-buns go every where with us. I have been searching for extras but so far no luck.

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12 Danielle July 18, 2008 at 7:22 am

Scott is a genius!

I had never asked- when when you went to PA and “lost” him, where did you ever find him…?

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13 Scary Mommy July 18, 2008 at 7:54 am

D- I left him at home when we went to PA. I don’t know what I was thinking. I specifically put him out so I wouldn’t forget. I’d grabbed a different bear for the baby, so Ben used him for those days. He kept asking for the “Real Bo-Bo.” It broke my heart!

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14 Feliz July 18, 2008 at 10:39 am

Once, we left “Ducky” at a hotel. Luckily, the staff sent it back to us. (After I called and begged 4 times and sent a check for postage.) My little one was waiting by the mailbox everyday for 2 1/2 weeks. I was wishing that I had a spare. There is no way that I could have gunked up the spare as much as the real Ducky anyway. He is well loved.

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15 Kelly July 18, 2008 at 11:43 am

All these bo-bo, co-co, ducky, penquin stories are breaking my heart!!
Thanks for the laugh, scary mommy!
Best laid plans…

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16 Insta-mom July 18, 2008 at 12:45 pm

On Christmas Eve, The Hubs and I stashed a bunch of stocking items in the closet that holds the vacuums…it’s downstairs and could be easily accessed after the kids went to bed.

We had a Christmas Eve gift exchange at our house because I was on bedrest with the twins and not exactly mobile. Well, MiniMe loves to clean so Grandma got him a play vacuum. Which he decided he needed to put away in the same closet as the big vacuum.

Ooops.

I’ll join you in the genius club.

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17 Veggie Mom July 18, 2008 at 6:17 pm

My nephew had a blankie he called “Dee.” Don’t know why. It wasn’t a whole blanket–just part of a thermal blanket with some satin trim on the edge. My SIL literally cut up the entire blanket, so that if Bobby lost Dee, or Dee got particularly stinky, etc., she’d always have a spare. It worked, too!

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18 noble pig July 18, 2008 at 8:07 pm

Oh no! That just ruined your whole plan! I hate when that happens!

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19 Lipstick July 20, 2008 at 8:34 am

This is so funny, especially the part about how they are both faded, stinky, and well-loved!

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20 Shannon July 20, 2008 at 2:48 pm

I wish I could find a spare “Puppy” for my youngest. Its all I can do to pry him out of her sticky hands to throw him in the washer!

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21 Heather July 20, 2008 at 8:33 pm

I had to put out a call when we needed a back-up for our daughter’s Most Beloved teddy bear, which to our horror had been discontinued (thanks a lot, Ty). We eventually had no less than FIVE back-up bears, thanks to diligent, eagle-eyed family and friends, as well as two lookalike but not exactly the same bears from a well-meaning aunt.

Within a couple of months, the kiddo was sleeping with five of the identical teddies AND the two faux-teddies. We kept one stashed away where it still remains in its original packaging, tags on. Over the past 3 years, we’re down to two original bears and the two faux bears. I have no recollection of what happened to the other three……..

Oh, and by the way, I totally just grabbed a button for my blog – too cute to resist! Thanks!

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22 Scary Mommy July 20, 2008 at 8:45 pm

Heather– that makes me feel so much better! Too funny!!

(And the button looks fabulous on your snazzy site!)

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23 natalie July 21, 2008 at 8:20 am

Haha, yeah I had the great idea of buying my daughter another one of those little blankies with the animal head and satin around the sides… well she’s 6 (eek!) and still sleeps with both of them! Wasn’t one of them supposed to get lost?!

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24 Stacey February 9, 2011 at 7:16 pm

Ok…so I got here through the crystal ball…and this post is so for me!!! My son had a boo (bear) that was dressed up as a baseball player. He loved his boo. I knew another was going to be a necessity when the original wore out. So I bought another and hid it. He found it. He then had two baseball boos (and a football boo…) He still has them, too. He’s 20…

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