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		<title>By: Faustino</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/dead-vagina-walking/#comment-139674</link>
		<dc:creator>Faustino</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Apr 2013 02:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;d like to thank you for the efforts you have put in writing this site. I&#039;m hoping to check out the same 
high-grade blog posts by you later on as well. In truth, your creative 
writing abilities has encouraged me to get my own website now ;)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d like to thank you for the efforts you have put in writing this site. I&#8217;m hoping to check out the same<br />
high-grade blog posts by you later on as well. In truth, your creative<br />
writing abilities has encouraged me to get my own website now ;)</p>
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		<title>By: upload your video of your soldier coming home from war</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/dead-vagina-walking/#comment-137322</link>
		<dc:creator>upload your video of your soldier coming home from war</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Mar 2013 21:52:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Afghaniston Coming Home is a website dedicated to celebrating the return of our military from overseas. People can upload their favorite home video for a chance to have it become part of a new music video by Country Music&#039;s Steve Zuwala]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Afghaniston Coming Home is a website dedicated to celebrating the return of our military from overseas. People can upload their favorite home video for a chance to have it become part of a new music video by Country Music&#8217;s Steve Zuwala</p>
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		<title>By: Kristin</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/dead-vagina-walking/#comment-136988</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Mar 2013 21:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That men are the root of all evil must be the truest thing I ever heard anyone say. Imagine all the pain we women have had to endure so that THEY can reproduce themselves. While sitting in front of the telly. Drinking beer. Watching football. NEVER giving birth! Fuckers.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That men are the root of all evil must be the truest thing I ever heard anyone say. Imagine all the pain we women have had to endure so that THEY can reproduce themselves. While sitting in front of the telly. Drinking beer. Watching football. NEVER giving birth! Fuckers.</p>
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		<title>By: Mandy</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/dead-vagina-walking/#comment-132267</link>
		<dc:creator>Mandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Mar 2013 22:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m child free, not by choice... that long rant above nearly made me throw up... 

As to bashing the women who aren&#039;t straight up with their husbands about this, they&#039;re obviously nervous for a reason, because they&#039;ve been raised to believe men are like this, or maybe he really is... not all men are itching to have sex that soon, though many probably are... Just like not all women want to wait six weeks or longer to start again. Key point: everyone is different!

I agree that the core thing here is communication. If he can&#039;t handle that you can&#039;t deal with it right now, well... Don&#039;t know what to say.

I&#039;m more than confident my guy will be understanding if I don&#039;t feel up to it by that point our even beyond. One if the many reasons I love him.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m child free, not by choice&#8230; that long rant above nearly made me throw up&#8230; </p>
<p>As to bashing the women who aren&#8217;t straight up with their husbands about this, they&#8217;re obviously nervous for a reason, because they&#8217;ve been raised to believe men are like this, or maybe he really is&#8230; not all men are itching to have sex that soon, though many probably are&#8230; Just like not all women want to wait six weeks or longer to start again. Key point: everyone is different!</p>
<p>I agree that the core thing here is communication. If he can&#8217;t handle that you can&#8217;t deal with it right now, well&#8230; Don&#8217;t know what to say.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m more than confident my guy will be understanding if I don&#8217;t feel up to it by that point our even beyond. One if the many reasons I love him.</p>
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		<title>By: Nancy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Mar 2013 17:48:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You sound crazy, but you do have some valid points... All of us were quick in wanting the sex to have the babies... Yes, we are all insecure b/c our caginas have changed (yes, you can&#039;t deny it). We are looser/slicker, etc. but, who cares, it was our choice!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You sound crazy, but you do have some valid points&#8230; All of us were quick in wanting the sex to have the babies&#8230; Yes, we are all insecure b/c our caginas have changed (yes, you can&#8217;t deny it). We are looser/slicker, etc. but, who cares, it was our choice!</p>
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		<title>By: Nancy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Mar 2013 17:43:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband didn&#039;t want sex for 6 months post baby. Seeing the vagina stretched out no longer left him with sexual arousal for it... So, if your hubby still wants to have sex with your now looser vagina and with those bloody images ingrained be HAPPY-- he might be faking the excitement, too!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband didn&#8217;t want sex for 6 months post baby. Seeing the vagina stretched out no longer left him with sexual arousal for it&#8230; So, if your hubby still wants to have sex with your now looser vagina and with those bloody images ingrained be HAPPY&#8211; he might be faking the excitement, too!</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2013 19:17:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is nuts. :) I had an episiotomy with my first, and only waited 4 weeks. Didnt tear at all with my second, and waited 2 weeks. And I&#039;m pretty sure there was other stuff ;) ;) that happened before those 4/2 week marks. I dunno, man...I hurt after having a baby, OBVIOUSLY. But not enough to lie to my husband, and def not enough to WANT to wait for months and months!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is nuts. :) I had an episiotomy with my first, and only waited 4 weeks. Didnt tear at all with my second, and waited 2 weeks. And I&#8217;m pretty sure there was other stuff ;) ;) that happened before those 4/2 week marks. I dunno, man&#8230;I hurt after having a baby, OBVIOUSLY. But not enough to lie to my husband, and def not enough to WANT to wait for months and months!</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2013 02:35:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Agreed Brook, I haven&#039;t been able to have &quot;sexy time&quot; with my husband for a long time because I have chronic health issues and am very sick, but he understands because he&#039;s been sick too and love, honor &amp; commitment do not stop just because two married people can&#039;t have SEX for a certain amount of time. It&#039;s not like we don&#039;t want to, it&#039;s that our bodies are either hurting or we&#039;re exhausted, etc. and sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, whether you&#039;re a man or a woman!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Agreed Brook, I haven&#8217;t been able to have &#8220;sexy time&#8221; with my husband for a long time because I have chronic health issues and am very sick, but he understands because he&#8217;s been sick too and love, honor &amp; commitment do not stop just because two married people can&#8217;t have SEX for a certain amount of time. It&#8217;s not like we don&#8217;t want to, it&#8217;s that our bodies are either hurting or we&#8217;re exhausted, etc. and sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, whether you&#8217;re a man or a woman!</p>
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		<title>By: Rebekah</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/dead-vagina-walking/#comment-118151</link>
		<dc:creator>Rebekah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2013 20:55:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven&#039;t laughed this hard since Bridget Jones&#039; Diary debuted :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t laughed this hard since Bridget Jones&#8217; Diary debuted :)</p>
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		<title>By: Colleen</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/dead-vagina-walking/#comment-118126</link>
		<dc:creator>Colleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2013 16:24:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Love it!! Wish I thought of that one!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love it!! Wish I thought of that one!!</p>
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