Comments on: How to be a Good Wife

By: Kim

Kim — Sat, 30 Jul 2011 15:06:58 +0000

How do i deal with my husband and facebook?

By: Heidi

Heidi — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 05:05:30 +0000

My husband would pull his pants down and say “get to it!”

By: Nikki

Nikki — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 14:20:26 +0000

Do you mean sex? sex should not be a reward for your husband because you go to a fancy resteraunt. It should be equally enjoyable for both of you. Husbands need to love and respect and server, and so do wives. that is what people do when they LOVE each other.

By: Nikki

Nikki — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 14:17:04 +0000

I see what you mean by those words being “appalling”. But, honestly in the Bibles it says that is what a woman should do, and the other side of that is that a husband should LOVE AND RESPECT his wife. If a husband respected his wife and loved her, it would be no problem for her to “obey” him, as he would not order her around and he would not be selfish. He would be a wonderful husband and make her feel wonderful every day. If both sides are not met, it would be a terrible rule to follow. If my husband ordered me around like a dog, I would not even think of “serving” him./ However, when my husband comes home and gives me and the kids hugs and kisses and says he loves us, and asks if my day went well I am happy to make him a wonderful dinner and give him a back rub. You have to remeber, when these things were wrote in the Bibles, woman really were mothers and wives, and that was it. There were no woman hunting or bringing home a living. So their job was to raise the kids and serve the husband. I completely understand that it sounds aweful nowadays, but honestly, having a child is serving your husband. It does not mean you should bow down and kiss his feet when he walks through the door. He should respect and love, and you should take care of his needs as a man. It only works if the husband and wife work as a team.

By: SinnerElla

SinnerElla — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 04:12:26 +0000

OK, so I have a few little comments that I would like to add, though this post seems almost as old as the head of lettuce that’s probably in my veggie drawer in my fridge.
1. It would be less painful for my husband, children and myself for me to punch myself in the throat with a brick repeatedly than it would for me to even attempt this “Challenge”.
2. I feel that the sarcasm in the post above is perfectly acceptable as no one here has forced anyone else here to read said blog post.
3. I do not agree with bashing another’s beliefs in their religious view. I do, however believe in calling a spade a spade and pointing out the obvious (no matter how trivial, rude, abrasive or repugnant my choice of words may seem) that this view of a marriage seems very insecure and 1 sided. If a wife (or husband, for that matter) feels the need to literally change who they are for 2 months to be happier in their marriage, then there is something really fundamentally wrong with that marriage. (and probably said wife or husband)
4. I feel that doing things for my husband comes naturally to me (as it probably does with most wives who are happy in their situation) but please remember that at some point, no matter how happy I am there will be at LEAST a minimal amount of grumbling, complaining, eye rolling, nagging, and eventually cussing.
5. I don’t think that the whole basis of selflessness is wrong, just the way it’s gone about here. Why would one need a list supplied to them in the order of another’s chosen priority? As mothers, domestic CEO’s and wives, we pretty much see and know better than anyone else in the home, the list of priority in which things NEED to be done, no matter what anyone wants done.
6. The bible quoting is getting old. Most here have read the book, it seems and all seem to know how it ends. Use your own thoughts and reason with each other as opposed to attacking, name calling and link splashing back and forth. If you still feel the need to scream blasphemer or to tell another to shut their cockpocket, walk away from the board for a while. Like the saying goes, arguing online is like running in the special olympics… (Here’s the effed up politically incorrect punch line) No matter who wins, you’re all still a bunch of tards.
All that being said (and this being my first post) I’m going to take my overbearing, opinionated, stubborn, never know when to shut my mouth, Heathen self over to my couch and stare blankly at the talking box I paid way too much to watch football, drink beer and scream obscenities at during football season.

By: Sherri

Sherri — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 04:23:03 +0000

Wow! This is scary! Lol. I tried just about everything in this article, except praying for him every day.
My divorce will be final in a month or two. No joke!!
Men may say they WANT a woman like this, but they sure AS HELL don’t respect a woman who does everything for them!

By: Marta

Marta — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 04:18:54 +0000

Wow. That was… something. Certainly an example of the kind of people I hope to stay very very far away from. For my safety and theirs.

By: Rita

Rita — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 00:21:27 +0000

If my husband decides to take US out to a restaurant or other date, yes, I’m going to give and get that night, if you know what I mean…

By: Rita

Rita — Sat, 09 Jul 2011 23:59:28 +0000

Somehow, I don’t think the bible thumpers understood the sheer sarcasm of this article and comments. Sad.

By: Dgbrown

Dgbrown — Sat, 09 Jul 2011 23:52:04 +0000

Oh. My. Effin. God. (hey, does that count as praying? Score!)