Aug
27
2009

Little Miss Independent

We’ve been waiting all summer for today.

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But now that it’s here,

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I just want her home.

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And she couldn’t disagree more.

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{Update 4:00 PM: School was “SO much FUN! I Loved it,” she reported. She cannot wait to go back– I don’t think I EVER felt that way about school. It’s adorable!}

{ 66 comments… read them below or add one }

1 christy August 27, 2009 at 9:38 am

I love that you got on the bus to take her picture. Too cute! Hope you make it through today without crying…I’m sure I’d break down as soon as the bus pulled away!
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2 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 9:42 am

Oh, no, I have been in tears. I didn’t expect it to be so hard. WAH!!!! I want her HOME!!

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3 Melissa Wardy August 27, 2009 at 10:03 am

Now you have me crying! My little girl starts preschool next week. How did they get so big? Wah!

My mom always said having a child is like having your heart walk around outside of your body. So hard to let them go, even if it is just kindergarten! How far away is college?

Your darling girl looks ready to conquer the world in that bottom picture :)

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4 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 11:32 am

That’s so true. She just feels so… far. I hate not knowing exactly what she’s doing. Sigh.

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5 Ri, The Music Savvy Mom August 27, 2009 at 10:32 am

*sigh*

You’re killing me, Scary…you’re KILLING me.

gah.
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6 Alicia August 27, 2009 at 10:36 am

Oh, I went through this 2 weeks ago. I know how you feel! Its so hard though to just “send” them to someone and trust that they will be ok. My little girl is so independent so it was a little easier! I know she will have a blast today at school!

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7 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 11:33 am

She’ll do great. I don’t know what I’d do if she’d been crying!

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8 Lolli August 27, 2009 at 10:46 am

School started today? Poor you. It’s hard to let the kids go, but you’ll get used to it. I promise. :)
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9 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 11:33 am

Oh, I know. Quickly, too. :)

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10 Elisa August 27, 2009 at 10:48 am

Look at her, she’s so excited! It’s adorable. It’s so odd when they go to school for the first time, I bawled the first time I sent Sarah to school! (ok, the first week). I waited until I was in the house, then I cried like a baby!
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11 C @ Kid Things August 27, 2009 at 10:49 am

She does look about 15 in that 3rd picture, waving you off. Like Mom, Hi, you can go away now, you’re embarrassing me!
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12 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 11:34 am

Exactly. Just the beginning. :)

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13 Sara August 27, 2009 at 10:53 am

At least she isn’t crying with you! She looks so happy. Hang in there, Mom!

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14 lceel August 27, 2009 at 10:53 am

You got ON THE BUS? To TAKE PICTURES? Cool.

But tomorrow she may ask you not to leave the house.
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15 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 11:35 am

Ha! Hey, the driver TOLD me to. What was I going to do- decline?! :)

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16 Jennifer August 27, 2009 at 11:07 am

You were ON the bus… and she was SMILING! LOL I love that. I’m so not looking forward to Baby Girl starting school. I know it is going to just about kill me.
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17 Mwa August 27, 2009 at 11:07 am

Too cute! You can expect me to join in with you on Tuesday. :-)
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18 Shannon August 27, 2009 at 11:09 am

What a cutie. Hope she has a great 1st day.

And I hope it goes by really fast for your sake! :)
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19 dawn August 27, 2009 at 11:17 am

oh momma you are the sweetest Mom. I adore this post.
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20 Futureblackmail August 27, 2009 at 11:36 am

You got ON the bus?! That’s awesome….and may I suggest you keep doing that year after year after year. :)
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21 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 11:38 am

I’m never going to live that down, huh?

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22 OHmommy August 27, 2009 at 11:46 am

My little Miss I doesnt start kinder until Monday. her outfit has been laid out since… um…. the 4th of July.
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23 Notesfromthegrove August 27, 2009 at 11:48 am

She is such a pretty girl. Don’t worry, she’ll be home soon!
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24 Beth August 27, 2009 at 11:53 am

Lol it look like she is giving you the “talk to my hand” pose in that one picture!
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25 sandyj August 27, 2009 at 12:34 pm

You did well Jill! i mean letting her take the bus and not driving her to school. a big step for Lily but an even bigger one for you.
bittersweet but the pic of her on the bus [YOU got ON the bus?!?] is so filled with joy and pride . and she looks like you in this pic.
good job mom and its okay to cry.

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26 Starnes Fam August 27, 2009 at 12:52 pm

How sweet. I love that you take pics. I went into my 3rd graders class to do it this year. I know my time is limited!
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27 Jen, buried with children August 27, 2009 at 1:05 pm

My day is coming soon. It know is going to be rough.
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28 Loukia August 27, 2009 at 1:10 pm

She is beautiful and so is this post… the pics are lovely. And I’m teary.
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29 Julie B. August 27, 2009 at 2:38 pm

We don’t go back until Sept 8th. When school (pre-k) ended last year I pondered what the heck I was going to do to keep my 4 yo busy all summer and now I can’t believe that it’s almost time to go back. Still second year of pre-k for her but she goes on the bus and is at the elementary school so it’s pretty emotional.
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30 Rebecca Kotok August 27, 2009 at 2:53 pm

Am tearing up seeing her on the bus looking so brave and independent. What a bittersweet day:)

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31 Kaitlin Johnston August 27, 2009 at 3:23 pm

awww ! she’ll be just fine though, before you know it .. she’ll be faking illness to stay home !
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32 Jeff August 27, 2009 at 3:31 pm

When will my heart stop hurting?

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33 Lynn from For Love or Funny August 27, 2009 at 3:34 pm

So cute! I can totally relate. The first day of school is always a bit sad for me.
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34 SeattleDad August 27, 2009 at 4:02 pm

The waiting must be a hard thing. Hope the day is over soon for you.
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35 Mags August 27, 2009 at 5:12 pm

Your beautiful little Miss Independent looks so excited heading off to school! My twins start Kindergarten in two weeks…one can’t wait and the other wants no part of it. I’m going to be a mess on Day 1.
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36 Suzy Voices August 27, 2009 at 5:51 pm

Oh she’s so beautiful and shiny on her first day! And I’m sure by now she’s back at home, and you’ve gotten to hear all about her day. And hopefully you’re feeling a bit of relief. Tomorrow will be easier. :)
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37 Amber August 27, 2009 at 5:59 pm

I know how it goes. My son started school yesterday.
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38 T Rex Mom August 27, 2009 at 6:36 pm

Great first day of school photos!

How many tears were shed on your part?
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39 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 9:25 pm

Many. :)

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40 passions and soapboxes August 27, 2009 at 7:27 pm

So hard to let them go. School is only the first of many letting go’s you will have to do. I think it is the hardest. She is beautiful.
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41 Scary Mommy August 27, 2009 at 7:53 pm

Thanks, all. :) She was so freaking sweet about it. I’ve been a ball of mush all day!

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42 Sara @heartmychloe August 27, 2009 at 9:09 pm

adorable kid…just like her momma.

it cracks me up that you got on the bus to take the last picture. you are a good mom.

and hot (just sayin)
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43 Kat August 27, 2009 at 9:22 pm

My daughter absolutely wailed the first day that she went to kindergarden. I’m so glad that my ex was the one to bring her; I couldn’t have handled it. For weeks afterward, I had other mothers who had been there come up to me and tell me that they cried for HER, never mind their own kids.

Of course she came home that day with smiles, saying that she had a great time and had made new friends. She has loved school ever since.
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44 Texan Mama August 27, 2009 at 9:58 pm

Oh my gosh. I mean this in the nicest way:

You are such a dork! I can’t believe you GOT ON THE SCHOOL BUS to take a picture of Lily.

But it is a cute picture. You are THAT mom.
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45 Scary Mommy August 28, 2009 at 6:03 am

I am totally THAT mom. Deal with it, my friend. :)

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46 carrie anne August 27, 2009 at 10:32 pm

A big pat on the back for making it through the first day of kindergarten. That’s a tough one. I love that your daughter had a great time too. I don’t know when kids start to dislike school, but I don’t look forward to that day. Enjoy the moment because there is only one first day of kindergarten
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47 Kelly Deneen August 27, 2009 at 10:52 pm

She is SO absolutely beautiful! And I got a little teary reading this. *sniff*

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48 DCUrbanDad August 27, 2009 at 11:48 pm

And how did Dad do?
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49 Scary Mommy August 28, 2009 at 6:02 am

He was a wreck. She blew him a kiss from the bus and he melted. He is a big pussy though, especially with her.

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50 Lori Z. August 28, 2009 at 2:15 am

It gives me hope that even if she is running off for school, she still doesn’t mind having you take her pic on the bus!
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51 Teri August 28, 2009 at 2:19 am

That first day is filled with so many mixed emotions. It’s great that the kiddies are growing up, and it’s not so great that they are growing up. Mine are in the 11th and 8th grade this year, and I feel the exact same way.

Your pictures are adorable.
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52 Steph August 28, 2009 at 5:54 am

So, is she up already (5:45) ready to go back? She’s soooo cute!

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53 Scary Mommy August 28, 2009 at 5:59 am

She’s my late sleeper– I’ll be needing to wake her up!! The boys, on the other hand, are up at 5. Blech!

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54 GredyGirl1 August 28, 2009 at 7:09 am

I know it was hard but she was so cute, and look at the brights side you’re preparing your baby for her big future
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55 Vic August 28, 2009 at 10:30 am

I remember those words. They so didn’t last!

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56 Amy August 28, 2009 at 11:17 am

late comment (I couldn’t bring myself to do it earlier, as I am having dry heaves at the thought of walking my girl to school in 2 weeks & dropping her off at kindergarten)…. but where’s her backpack from??
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57 Scary Mommy August 28, 2009 at 11:22 am
58 Jane August 28, 2009 at 11:31 am

I just think it’s amazing that she smiled so beautifully for you while you took pictures of her on the bus! What a wonderful relationship you two must have. And I love your “picture story.”
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59 Life with Kaishon August 29, 2009 at 2:50 pm

Oh my gosh. This just made me cry and cry. We don’t start until September 8. She is going to do great. So cute : )
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60 Jennifer August 29, 2009 at 4:22 pm

That is adorable. I could never wait to get back home from school!

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61 Elaine August 29, 2009 at 10:19 pm

That smile on her face says it all! Glad she had a great first day! : )
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62 Bruce Teague August 30, 2009 at 11:49 am

I for sure never wanted to go back. My son starts preschool next week. I can’t believe it! I’ll miss the little booger, but part of me is excited… about one less kid to take care of in the morning :P
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63 scrappysue September 1, 2009 at 1:50 am

i love that you got on the bus – that’s so totally what i would do!!!
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64 Jennifer September 1, 2009 at 9:56 am

I wish my daughter seemed that happy about going to school. Lucky you! Great pictures! I can’t believe you got on the bus. My daughter would never speak to me again.
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65 Jessica - This Is Worthwhile September 7, 2009 at 2:45 pm

How wonderful that she loved it!! Hang in there, girl!
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66 rikka March 14, 2010 at 1:50 am

you got on the bus with her?! SO not cool, mom!!!

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