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jealous friends
  • librapsy1020librapsy1020
    Posts: 18Member
    last week i graduated from college with 2 degree's. one of my friends claimed that she was happy for me and wished me lots of success, so why is it that heard conversations that she had with some1 else saying she cant stand me, i think in all that, and made up lies to say about me to make me look  negative. we were friends for 12 yrs. her daughters are my god kids, but this is the 2nd time that she have done something like this, so our friendship is OVER!!! i really dont care if i see or hear from her again.
  • TrEr02TrEr02
    Posts: 688Member
    been in your shoes..its very hurtful!! But if thats how she is gonna be then she isnt a true friend!! Congrats btw!!
    We got no food, no jobs...OUR PETS HEADS ARE FALLING OFF!!
  • MistressHeidiMistressHeidi
    Posts: 975Member
    Congratulations on graduating, It takes a lot of hard work to get through college. I have a sil like that, she makes me feel horrible for every good thing that happens to me, whether she says it to my face or behind my back. It sucks and it's really painful to be treated that way by someone you considered a friend.
  • librapsy1020librapsy1020
    Posts: 18Member
    that what i think too. but what i wonder is what did i do to her for her to be this way about me? i have been nothing but a good friend to her and her kids. i guess my success is a threat to her, but it shouldnt be bc i have tryd to get her to go back to college to better her life but she always make up excuses not to go.
  • BellaBefanaBellaBefana
    Posts: 8,140Member
    there are people in this world who are only your friends to make themselves "look better," like if you're heavier than they are, they'll go out and party with you so they get more attention.  When you stop doing that for them, they get snarky.  You don't need people like that in your life!

    Congrats on the degrees, that's a lot of hard work of which you should be SO proud!
    Bite me, cupcake!
  • librapsy1020librapsy1020
    Posts: 18Member
    i am very proud of myself. just thought my friends wud be also.
  • BellaBefanaBellaBefana
    Posts: 8,140Member
    Real ones would be.
    Bite me, cupcake!
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    well behaved women seldom make history
  • ErryBerry
    Posts: 3Member
    Congratulations on your success! I have a friend that tends to get very jealous too. I moved in with my partner and daughter and built a good life for our family and she came over every single day and flirted with my partner and was overly nice to our child in an attempt to buy her love over mine.. My partner recently had heart failure and I was too caught up caring for him that I didn't have time to go out with her to the pub. She sent me a message saying that I'd changed and wasn't a very good friend. And she sent me a message a couple of weeks ago expecting to come over AGAIN to watch football and I said no because it had been a busy week and she hasn't spoken to me since... My Gran passed away on the weekend and she hasn't even attempted contacting me. Not a good friend at all. You and I both can find someone that is actually worth our time and love. Hope things start looking up for you! :)
  • deviltwinsmommadeviltwinsmomma
    Posts: 2,276Member
    Yeahh girl Congratulations on working ur butt off. Im gonna quote a wise man kat williams "You need haters to make you stronger..w/o haters most ppl wouldnt try to become better. Just tell them, bitch u hate me because u cant be me".
    my mother used to sing me a song. It went like this: "Life is short, life is shit, and soon it will be over.
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