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Need someone to tell me it will be ok.
  • Monkeynmoo
    Posts: 1,420Guest
    I think I'm pregnant and my youngest is 5 months old. When I told dh that I thought I was he said " I don't know if I can handle three small children in diapers" then left to fix someone's car. I can't loose him, he is my sole mate and best friend.
  • shate98shate98
    Posts: 2,804Member
    It will be ok. **hugs**

    I bet he just needs time to process.
    "As you wander through your life, whatever be your goal,
    keep your eye upon the doughnut, not upon the hole."
  • BellaBefanaBellaBefana
    Posts: 8,177Member
    First of all, make sure you ARE in fact pregnant before you start the worry.  Even if you are, it will be o.k., @shate98 is right, this is a lot to process.
    Bite me, cupcake!
  • StarsStars
    Posts: 1,054Member
    He voiced a concern, sweetie, not a declaration of finality.  As the above ladies have said, make sure you are and then go from there.  It will ALL be okay!   >:D<
    apsycho

  • SammieSammie
    Posts: 7,277Administrator, Moderator
    Exactly what @bellabefana said. Don't worry until you see two pink lines. Make sure you ARE pregnant then sit down and have a talk about it. You probably caught him off guard and it IS a lot to take in when you have 2 small children already, so his reaction isn't too worrisome. Sounds like a gut reaction to some very unexpected news. I'm sure if you are pregnant that he will come around.

    community-manager


  • Monkeynmoo
    Posts: 1,420Guest
    He told me when he got home that he isn't going anywhere and that he loves me. I am so scared, I want three kids but I wanted our last one to be about 4 years from our daughter. My family is going to freak out.
  • TrEr02TrEr02
    Posts: 687Member

    Dont worry till you know for sure..are you late?

    We got no food, no jobs...OUR PETS HEADS ARE FALLING OFF!!
  • unforgivenunforgiven
    Posts: 12,700Confessional Manager
    It will be ok.

    confessional-manager

    "What looks like torture is a time to rejoice
    What sounds like thunder is a comforting voice
    When what is beautiful looks broken and crushed
    And I say I don't know you
    But you say it's finished"
  • Monkeynmoo
    Posts: 1,420Guest
    Not exactly buty periods are super light and I have all the other symptoms... Extreme fatigue, sore breasts, irritability and I cry at the drop of a hat.
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    well behaved women seldom make history
  • deviltwinsmommadeviltwinsmomma
    Posts: 2,298Member
    @MammaTeeRoll is right 100%! You NEED to listen to her!! go for the fucking balls girl!!
    my mother used to sing me a song. It went like this: "Life is short, life is shit, and soon it will be over.
  • SammieSammie
    Posts: 7,277Administrator, Moderator
    I still think you should take a test and have the final answer. Unless it is too early.

    community-manager


  • TrEr02TrEr02
    Posts: 687Member
    I agree with @sammie
    We got no food, no jobs...OUR PETS HEADS ARE FALLING OFF!!
  • Peace
    Posts: 2,083Member
    unforgiven said:

    It will be ok.



    Take the test, sweetie.
    No sense getting upset when you don't even know yet.
    Then deal with dh...even if it's negative.
    >:D<
  • Monkeynmoo
    Posts: 1,420Guest
    IM NOT PREGNANT!!!!! Thank you Jesus! I have an I'd but it slipped out of place last month so I was quite scared! I definitely want one more but with dd being only 5 months old, I probably would have committed myself! Thank you for all your support @peace @TrEr02 @sammie @deviltwinsmomma @MammaTeeRoll @unforgiven @stars @BellaBefana and @shate98.... I don't know what I would do without his community.
  • Peace
    Posts: 2,083Member
    Yay!! So happy for you!! Congrats!! <:-P
  • Monkeynmoo
    Posts: 1,420Guest
    Thanks!
  • StarsStars
    Posts: 1,054Member
    Yes! So glad it worked out the way you wanted it to.  :D
    apsycho

  • [Deleted User]
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    well behaved women seldom make history
  • CaMommaWthluvx2CaMommaWthluvx2
    Posts: 37Member
    Do you think you might have PPD? I do and it sucks, it seriously is so similar to pregnancy symptoms :P... My oldest is 16 months and my youngest is 2 months, got preggers when my oldest was 4 months I know how you feel... It is a lot of work.. 
    PS happy you're not preggers and that you get to stick to your plan of waiting 4 more years :)
  • Monkeynmoo
    Posts: 1,420Guest
    CaMommaWthluvx2 said:

    Do you think you might have PPD? I do and it sucks, it seriously is so similar to pregnancy symptoms :P... My oldest is 16 months and my youngest is 2 months, got preggers when my oldest was 4 months I know how you feel... It is a lot of work.. 

    PS happy you're not preggers and that you get to stick to your plan of waiting 4 more years :)


    I was told I had this after I had my son but I refuse to take a birth control pill, which is what my ob prescribed for it. My current birth control is non hormonal and it's staying that way. My body regulates its own hormones and doesn't need to work harder to regulate the synthetic ones too that birth control puts in my system.

    I am so thankful that I am not pregnant! After talking with she before I took the test he apologized for saying what he said, he does this thing were he "feels out loud" and that's what he was doing but had/s no intentions of walking away from me or the kids. E kinda got taken off guard I think and that's where is "fol" habit came in.

  • TrEr02TrEr02
    Posts: 687Member
    yay!! party time! lol
    We got no food, no jobs...OUR PETS HEADS ARE FALLING OFF!!
  • shadylaneshadylane
    Posts: 3,037Member
    shew! what a relief eh? i'm glad it worked out the way u wanted
    ~slim shady~
  • French_momFrench_mom
    Posts: 1,540Member
    I am happy that all worked out the way you wanted it. :) 
    It is for me to know and you to dot dot dot.
  • [Deleted User]
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    well behaved women seldom make history
  • Monkeynmoo
    Posts: 1,420Guest
    Yes, they put a new one in, it was about 5 weeks ago ad since the new one has been snug as a bug!
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