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A letter to parents from non-parent
  • PigeonPigeon
    Posts: 681Guest
    http://tryingtobegood.com/2012/06/02/an-open-letter-to-all-parents-from-a-non-parent-10/

    I wish I'd heard ONE of these things before my friends dropped me while I was pregnant. Then again, if they dropped me they weren't that great of friends to begin with. Ah well, it's a nice thought.
  • missmama5missmama5
    Posts: 3,623Member
    LOVED this. What an amazing read!!!!! so touching.
  • momofdbbmomofdbb
    Posts: 9,075Member
    =)) loved it.
    " Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
    " I'm a leafe on the wind..watch how I soar ." Wash :((
    " Oh the wall had it comming.' Sherlock Holmes
    yea I am geek !!
  • LesboMomLesboMom
    Posts: 2,842Confessional Manager
    HA! 


    :-j

    confessional-manager

    Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow. -- Helen Keller
  • MaryPoppins25
    Posts: 1,686Member
    I loved it! It makes me so happy that my bestest has always been understanding of my having the girls and them coming first in my life.
  • LoveLove
    Posts: 12,773Administrator, Moderator
    I loved this piece, and was forced to share it LOL

    community-manager


  • BirdieBirdie
    Posts: 1,751Member
    Loved this!

    SMSM_s_5

  • ButterflyButterfly
    Posts: 80Member

    This rocks!  "Let's smell the tops of their heads together" made me tear up.  And the "I bow down to you" made me feel understood and excused for the chaos.  It reminded me of a confession this week:

    "I don't judge mothers who are overweight or not put-together...."

    LOVE!

  • Peace
    Posts: 2,083Member
    Love this!! Thanks for posting..I know some other moms that this will make their day!
  • GritsGrits
    Posts: 3,745Member
    Awesome post!! I totally needed to read that. I think I need to remind myself that people aren't judging me as harshly as I imagine they are. And if they are, then fuck 'em!
    "I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and I believe in miracles." ~Audrey Hepburn
  • pdxmama
    Posts: 1,470Member
    Love, love, love this!
  • nonamejustmommy
    Posts: 162Member
    Awesome!! they just don't get it until they have kids of their own lol. I have "lost" a few that found their way back after they had kids.

    Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass....It's about learning to dance in the rain.

    Bide within the Law you must, in perfect Love and perfect Trust.
    Live you must and let to live, fairly take and fairly give.

    These Eight words the Rede fulfill:

    "An Ye Harm None, Do What Ye Will"