The Scary Mommy Community is a place to find support and camaraderie with amazing moms who love to help one another. We are scattered all around the world, of all different colors and sizes and lifestyles, united by a single thing: motherhood.

Please create a profile to post and for access to all of boards. It's quick and completely painless!

Motherhood Comes Naturally (and other vicious lies) is available in stores, and online, NOW. Do you have it yet? Have you told all your friends and family about it? **Get it, share it, and spread the joy!**
update on me and DSD and also some interesting stuff hitting the fan
  • utleymommyof4utleymommyof4
    Posts: 145Member

    so me and the step daughter are doing better we had a heart to heart and i hope to god it stay that way i don't want her to be prefect i just don't want her to yell at eveyone all the time...

     

    on another note some intestering shit hit the fan today.... My step kids mom is pregneat with a black mans baby.... now im not racist and neither is my husband but his family don't believe in that kind of thing and neither does her family... what gets me is she came to ME! and confinded in me what to do!!!

    Well i personaly don't care what she does. I don't beleive she should have kids.... her son my step son is not actualy my husbands son... but we have full custody of him.... I guess when he was born she gave him to her mother and when my husband met her he made her get him back so since her was 2 months old her has been my husbands son.... she is also the same woman who refused to take care of herself while prego with my stepdaughter and almost killed the poor thing the same woman who has never worked and layed in bed screaming at her babies while my inlaws took care of them.  the same woman who left my now husband and her children for three months to go stay with another man without telling a soul where she was who told everyone where she was that she had no children... who only asked for the my step kids FOUR DAYS A MONTH who pretty much doesn't care..

     

       my step daughter calleed asking to go to her house early this week and her mother flat out told her she was too damn busy...   I wonder who will take care of this child since neither of them have a job or and live between his moms and her dads where there is no real room for anyone.  What would you guys think knowing the facts knowing also she smokes pot ( i don't care about that but when ur pergo you should stop everything)  she only got drunk on the 28th and she knew she was then!!!

     

    i needed to rant this becasue i really can't say any of it out loud i don'tbad mouth their mom or my ex in front of my kidos

    Lovez Ya'll
  • utleymommyof4utleymommyof4
    Posts: 145Member

    oh an another thing my kids have been told this is a bad thingy by her father they grandfather and refuse to call the baby their brother or sister... i explained to them that it will be half just like my little girl with their dad but they wont hear of it... this is just another little hiccupp in our life i guess

     

    Lovez Ya'll
  • blkrosemommablkrosemomma
    Posts: 297Member
    That woman should have her uterus revoked! 
  • BookMum
    Posts: 717Member
    Let them know its not the little babys fault...the baby is innocent and deserves to be loved by as many people that can find room in their hearts. Dont let him come into the world, disliked, unloved and unwanted. Life is hard enough without having to be rejected as a tiny baby.
    I shall futterwacken...vigorously*
  • regpregp
    Posts: 1,019Member
     I hope you follow @bookmum's advice.
    I'm on the Internet Explorer!
  • AloneOverseasAloneOverseas
    Posts: 2,252Member
    I would seriously think about getting CPS involved NOW so they can maybe find adoptive parents or at the very least foster parents to take this child at birth. Certainly sounds as though the poor thing will get no love with current family and no proper care, either.
    I love purple; I love cats. Imagine if cats were purple ...
  • utleymommyof4utleymommyof4
    Posts: 145Member

    i have explained it all to them they understand its not "its" fault since we don't know what she's haveing.  I have been talking to my husband about it and have put in a tip to cps but around here they don't seem to care about kids unless they r getting paid good money...  I just hope somone will also step in  and help it...

     

    I fear what will happen when it is born and tommrow they go to her house both are refusing but she deserves at least a few days in the summer with them i guess... even if her father is the one who takes care of them.. and he is a convicted meth dealer.. but at least he takes good care of them i can't do much but sit back and suggest stuff.

    Lovez Ya'll
Add a Comment