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leaving dd for first time
  • jezebeldelilahjezebeldelilah
    Posts: 337Member
    So I'm going out of town for the first time without my dd. She is 15 months now and I am panic stricken. She will be with my mil (who is amazing) and I am still a wreck. I have medical testing to get done and will be give FOR 4 DAYS!! Just typing that made me tear up. Am I over reacting? I'm a so used to being with her every day. Also this could be a great chance for hubs and I to have a much needed talk and break possibly even SEX with no worries!! A bonus the hospital is 3 blocks from the ocean. I am rambling sorry just so nervous!! Any advice?
  • momofdbbmomofdbb
    Posts: 9,084Member
    Breathe ! It will be ok, I am still nervous when my ds spends the night away from me and I am talking about my 12 year old!!!
    " Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
    " I'm a leafe on the wind..watch how I soar ." Wash :((
    " Oh the wall had it comming.' Sherlock Holmes
    yea I am geek !!
  • AnonUser35
    Posts: 543Guest
    Try to enjoy your time! And have as much wild and crazy sex as possible!

    DH and I have never been away from our girls longer than 36 hrs. Pretty sure I cried! Guess I am not much help.
  • jezebeldelilahjezebeldelilah
    Posts: 337Member
    Her dad has been a douche bag lately and this trip could make or break my marriage. This is his last chance to show support to me and prove himself. I have ranted on here about his shittiness before but I want to have the man I married back. I think that is adding to my anxiety. I really want him to just "man up". Talk for once and start making positive changes. I made the personal decision that this was his last shot are being my hubs. I guess my worries are more geared towards that...I just needed to talk it through. My dd loves Granny and will have a blast getting spoiled I will miss her but I think this is more about him. I don't want him to let me down again. So tired of disappointments from him.
  • Emmie
    Posts: 277Member
    How hard!  But if it really is about your dh, then as scary as this time is, it is also a huge opportunity.  You have been weighted down with his crappy treatment, and now you have made a decision on how to deal with it.

    Either way you will get the testing done, have peaceful walks on the beach, and get a little time away from it all.  Best of luck to you!
  • jezebeldelilahjezebeldelilah
    Posts: 337Member
    Thanks I am just a ball of nervous energy. Gonna miss my dd for sure. I have like a 4page list of things for her granny to read and instructions to follow. Hope I don't offend her.
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