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Hot topic! Let's keep it civil please ladies!
CIRCUMCISIONS of young boys on religious grounds should be considered as grievous bodily harm, a German court has said, in a landmark ruling that clears up a grey area for doctors.
The regional court in Cologne, western Germany, ruled that the "fundamental right of the child to bodily integrity outweighed the fundamental rights of the parents".
"The religious freedom of the parents and their right to educate their child would not be unacceptably compromised, if they were obliged to wait until the child could himself decide to be circumcised," the court said.
The case was brought against a doctor in Cologne, who had circumcised a four-year-old Muslim boy on his parents' wishes.
The doctor was later charged with grievous bodily harm but acquitted by a lower court which judged he had acted within the law as the parents had given their consent.
On appeal, the regional court also acquitted the doctor but for different reasons.
The regional court upheld the original charge of grievous bodily harm but ruled also that the doctor was innocent as there was too much confusion on the legal situation.
"The body of the child is irreparably and permanently changed by a circumcision," the court said. "This change contravenes the interests of the child to decide later on his religious beliefs."
Holm Putzke, a criminal law expert at the University of Passau, told the Financial Times Deutschland that the ruling was "enormously important for doctors because for the first time they have legal certainty".
"Unlike many politicians, the court has not allowed itself to be scared off by charges of anti-Semitism or religious intolerance," said Mr Putzke.
The World Health Organisation has estimated that nearly one in three males under 15 is circumcised. In the United States, the operation is often performed for hygiene reasons on infants.
Thousands of young boys are circumcised every year in Germany, especially in the country's large Jewish and Muslim communities.
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So no more circumcision in Germany??
I find that kind of ironic..considering these factors: World War 2, Jews, Nazi Germany... just saying. Kinda "Funny/ironic" that the Jewish/Muslim community is being restricted from practicing a portion of their beliefs in GERMANY of all places. But if they said it was for hygiene that's ok?
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@primalmomma It is illegal no matter what.
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Also, it is not about restricting their religion. Adults are free to have it done. They are banning it from being performed on children who are below the age of consent.
<<"The religious freedom of the parents and their right to educate their child would not be unacceptably compromised, if they were obliged to wait until the child could himself decide to be circumcised," the court said.
The body of the child is irreparably and permanently changed by a circumcision," the court said. "This change contravenes the interests of the child to decide later on his religious beliefs.">>
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I could be wrong about this ( not an expert or anything ) I have heard that sometimes they have a priest or church leader do the cutting and some have had issues with cleaning the knife used. So that has caused some infection issues and not all stories ended well." Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
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@momofdbb It does not always end well in a medical situation either...
From the American Academy of Family PhysiciansComplications of Neonatal Circumcision
Neonatal circumcision has an estimated complication rate ranging from 0.1% to 35%. The vast majority of complications are infection, bleeding, and failure to remove enough foreskin. (5) One study of more than 350,000 newborns identified a complication rate of 1/476 (3) and another study estimated a complication rate of 1/100. (4) Meatitis and meatal stenosis are more serious complications that have been reported to occur in 8% to 21% of circumcised infants, (6) however no well-controlled cohort study has clearly identified a causal relationship between circumcision and meatitis. (7) Although meatitis is believed to occur more frequently in circumcised infants, balanoposthitis is believed to occur more frequently in uncircumcised children. (8) Serious complications, such as necrotizing fascitis, urethral fistula, partial penile amputation, penile necrosis, and concealed penis, have been reported. (9) Death is rare, and mortality risk has been estimated to be 1/500,000 procedures. (10)
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no not always. I have two boys and I chose not to get them "snipped " . With my oldest he was already having a hard day, ( lol) he got tangled up in his cord on the way out ! My decision I just didn't see the reason, but I would never bash any other mom for their decision ." Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
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Anyhow, I'm surprised nobody bit on this one... you all know how I love a good controversial debate!
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So now they've opened the door to back alley circumcisions. If people are doing it for religious purposes, I doubt a law is going to stop them. This law is only going to do two things: a) make the mind up of those who weren't sure about doing it/not doing it b) make it illegal to teach medical personel how to perform the procedure. It will not keep people of faith from doing it and it now creates a market for those who want to have it done be performed by people who have absolutly no idea what they are doing but want to make quick money.
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I think this is a great thing. I highly doubt getting some bit of skin chopped off their infant son will encourage them to let a stranger with a dirty knife near their child's genitals. I don't think 'back street circumcisions' are really a concern. I could be wrong. Would any of the mothers here get a back street circumcision if your doc refused it?
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@pallasathene I bit ;) but I have to sleepp, I look forward to continuing this discussion in the morning!"Be who you are and say what you feel. Because those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter." - Dr. Seuss
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@dontpooponthedog You do make a valid point. There have been in fact a few cases where the procedure is performed by a religious person rather than a doctor. Part of the orthodox ceremony involved with circumcision is that the rabbi sucks the blood from the wound with his mouth. There have been cases where children have died due to the transmission of herpes.
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What I meant by back street circumcision is not a person that decide "hey now I'm going to get little Johnny a circumcision due to it is now illegal." but more of a people practicing faiths that practice this could learn from medical doctors as well as apprenticing this type of thing instead, now the only way an apprenticship is the way to learn, or a person just think they know what they are doing and be terrribly wrong.
The drug reference in my opinion is not quite apples to apples due to it is not a whole religion that practices taking drugs instead of a small percentage of all different races/religions. In the case of peyote- the US government has actually made exceptions and allow the use of peyote for certain registered churches to use in specific religious ceremonies. This is a whole religion (Judism and possibly others) that states this practice is to happen for little boys and the German government is now making a religious practice illegal. Almost all religions state that there will be laws and other forces against what is deemed to be neccessary practices in each religion- but only going against those laws and practices show the person is a true follower and allows a spot in the afterlife. By removing the follower's choice to practice their faith legally, this could be interpreted as a war against people's religion.
I'm not trying to argue if circumcision is right or wrong....that truely doesn't intrest me because it's doubtful anyone on here is going to change their opinion. I believe taking this option away even for religious purposes is opening pandora's box that really shouldn't be opened especially it happenening in Germany against Jews seems a bit deja vue.
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@dontpooponthedog I wonder why it makes a difference to you whether it is a religion that takes drugs or random people? If all the drug addicts said they were doing it in honour of a god, do you think we should legalize it then? Should we tolerate anything religious people wish to do simply because they state it is a matter of their faith? How far should we as a secular society carry that tolerance? What if a certain group says that all their children need to have their noses cut off in order to ascend into heaven? How about the religions that practice female circumcision? As far as the US legalizing the use of peyote in ceremonies, I personally don't know anything about that, but I bet they aren't letting children take it. Would it continue to be acceptable if they gave it to children on the excuse that it is the only way they can be pleasing to a god? Circumcision is NOT illegal, what has been made illegal is the parent's right to choose for the child. A newborn baby is not a Jew or a Muslim. The body belongs to the child, NOT to the parent, and the child should have the right to choose once they have reached an age where they are capable of understanding the implications of the practice, as well as the tenets of their religion.
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Urg- I hate when you type something out and then it suddenly disappears.....
Anyway, I believe that natural drugs should not be illegal because they can be used for personal enlightenment. I believe all synthetic drugs should be illegal because they don't- they are used to increase a feeling or escapism but they cannot open the third eye.
The belief in God/Gods and an afterlife is a very powerful thing where it can make a person that one would think is personally rational say and do irrational things. I know PallasAthene stated a newborn baby is not a Jew or a Muslim- try explaining that to the parents.
Once again, I am not condoning any acts however, all I am stating is the German government is walking on a very slippery slope on the religious front.
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@Dontpooponthedog - the religious practice is not all out illegal, they just have to be of age to decide for themselves....that is a BIG difference.
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I have to say, I never though religion was a good reason for circumcision. Making a drastic, permanent change to someone else's body when they don't get any say because you believe your god told you to wouldn't be allowed under any other circumstances. Also, all these religious texts have been translated, so the exact wording is open to interpretation by the translator. I have a hard time believing we know what the original writers intended.
If it's medically necessary or if a consenting adult wants it, fine. I wonder how many doctors will just say it was necessary because the parents want it?
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I think this is an incredible step in the right direction. Religion baffles me and one of the most confusing things to me is how we all "were made in gods image" except that little piece of skin on the male genitalia, that HAS to go! :-/
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What I find "odd" is that before the Jew men were circumcised at 8, so the "age" has already changed. I don't know if circumcision is in the Torah, it is not in the Koran. I "believe" for both it is more in tradition rather than religious law.
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@MammaTeeRoll - I would say that there are already laws prohibiting "free exercise" or controls such as for Halal or Kosher slaughtering of animals. Or where you can have perform religious ceremonies.
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The first thought that popped into my head is that this is just an extension of the longstanding tradition of anti-semitism in Germany. Saying the child can have the procedure at a later time is not in line with the requirement to have the boy circumcised at 8 days per Jewish law. The reason for the ritual is to affirm the covenant with God and honestly it is much more humane at the young age of 8 days than later in life. Both my sons are circumcised - I don't have issues with those who choose not to - but my upbringing made this issue not really a question for me. I find the restrictions on Halal and other slaughter methods in Europe to be equally anti-semitic - not surprising considering the long tradition of anti Islamic and anti Jewish sentiment through out Europe (think Crusades).
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I completely agree @twinmommy2004. Imagine if they made a law stating that you couldn't have your children baptized until they're of age where they can consent, there would be outrage. (now I know everyone may not feel it's the same thing, but to Jewish and Muslim people it is).
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@Canadianmama we have opposing views on this subject and thats ok but I have to ask... How can the two even compare? I mean when a child is baptized there is no evidence later in life if they choose that religion isn't for them. IMO there is a huge difference between dropping some symbolic water on a child and removing a piece of tissue from their body. In my former religion either catholic or christian, I didn't pay too close attention, we were confirmed which gave us the opportunity to continue with our faith should we choose. Would it not be suffice to make such a huge decision at that point, when the child can make the decision for themself?
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@eapple that's your opinion yes, but they are both about the covenant with God.I don't understand how anyone can possibly say what is or isn't traumatizing for a baby? If people can make the claim that a circumcision is traumatizing on a baby, I can say the same about dripping water on a head. The reality is is that you have no idea what it means to the Jewish faith, you have no idea of the cultural, and historical importance of it, to YOU it's cutting a babys skin, to a Jewish person it is way more than that, and I can tell you NO ONE, not a single Jewish male I know (or non Jewish males like my husband) are "traumatized" by the fact that they have a circumcised penis.
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@canadianmama although I do think it's traumatizing (I also thought the heel prick was and yelled at the nurse "she doesn't like that") the trauma isn't my issue. My biggest concern is that it is something that can never be given back. What if a child born into a pro-circ religion grows up to be of another religion or of no religion. I don't think that circumcision should be made illegal but I do think the child should have some say in what his body will forever look like. Even if you don't agree I hope you can see where I'm coming from. It's not a judgmental place at all, more a confused by the rush and lack of consent if you kwim.
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And I believe, and correct me if I'm wrong that holy water is just water blessed by a priest, right? People bless me all the time, I was just god blessed in Ireland. However that "blessing" doesn't leave me branded for life. Neither did the holy water I was blessed with at my baptism. I'm not trying to make anyone feel uncomfortable this is just a subject I have a very difficult time wrapping my head around.
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@eapple because it's part of the Jewish faith that it has to be done within 8 days, it's not a "new" thing, it isn't about rushing, it's about following the traditions and practices of the faith. My brother has grown up to decide not to identify as Jewish, he still doesn't care that his penis is circumcised. Also in the eyes of some churches, when you're baptized you are a member of that church for life, so it is the same thing, the child didn't have a say in that, and in the eyes of the church the baptismal is permanent. It may not be a physical permanent thing, but it is still permanent. By asking Jewish families to wait until the child is old enough to choose for themselves, you're asking them to go against the teachings of their faith, and that is infringing on their religious expression.Please try and remember that you aren't Jewish, so there is very little chance that you could possibly understand what the circumcision means to people of the Jewish faith. Just like you may think that's only a little water, to someone who is devoutly Catholic it is way more than that.
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@Canadianmama you're probably right about not being able to understand because I am not apart of the Jewish faith. It really is a rather exclusive way of thinking. I'm glad that your brother didn't have any issues with having a circ'd penis but do you think it may have had something to do with the numbers? It was much more common to see a circ'd guy in the locker room rather than an uncirc'd guy however as of recently those numbers are doing a switch and in future generations uncirc'd penises will be more common. Do you think he may have had a different opinion if he were one of the odd ones out?
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Sorry I misunderstood thought it was 8 years old not 8 days, must be the Muslim boys who are older when they get circumcised?
Well I was baptized against my wishes and I would be livid if any family member tried to baptize my dd.
I will get hated for saying this but it is the exact same thing as female genital mutilation - a barbaric ritual all wrapped up in tradition... I hope this will make people think twice about such an act, its true meaning, and what is really gained by it. Many traditions have changed except in the most traditional places (separation of men and women walking down the street, diary and meat, women during their period...). Many parts of the world Jewish men do not get circumcised and I believe the tradition is more prevalent in the Muslim world and so I don't think it is Germany being anti-jewish or even anti-muslim regradless of their immigration.
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@eapple No, I don't think he would have a difference of opinion as he was a swimmer growing up, and regardless of what statistics you have, circumcised penis' weren't common. It wasn't a Jewish swim team, it was a regular swim team, with lots of different people including both circumcised and uncircumcised penis'.If no one is forcing you to get your child circumcised, what does it matter to you? It's not your child, it's not your choice. For the record, it's also not your tax dollars (not saying you were about to use this argument but it is a common one), circumcision is not covered under OHIP, it's an added expense as it's an elective procedure. Whether or not I have a son circumcised has absolutely nothing to do with you, just like you choosing to get your daughters ears pierced, or even have them baptized has nothing to do with me.@Beam it's 8 days in the Jewish faith. I'm not saying you're wrong, but I wouldn't mind seeing your statistics about Jewish men in other parts of the world....
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@Canadianmama I'm not trying to force anyone to keep their child intact whatsoever. I was just trying to understand the reasoning begind it being necessary to have it done so soon in life, which is what this thread is about. Like you said though I will prob never understand because I am not a part of the Jewish community. I see I've rubbed you the wrong way and I apologize for that. All my questions were legit and in no way meant to challenge your opinion, just understand it.
I don't go researching the stats of this procedure and I don't go preaching to ppl to "keep our boys whole" because that's just not my nature. I do encourage ppl who are NOT doing the procedure for religious reasons to educate themselves because it really isn't that big of a deal to have a foreskin. By ppl I mean my sister, she's the only one I've really pressed the information on. The reason I said that it was much more common to be circ'd is because there were a bunch of signs posted all over the general hospital and surrounding area regarding the stats not too long ago.
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@eapple I actually had no idea that it was common to circumcise boys for non religious reasons until I joined this board. I don't quite understand the reasons for doing it that aren't faith based. Also ftr, Rylee's ears aren't pierced, and I wouldn't pierce them as that's strictly a vanity thing. (although there might be cultures that do it for cultural reasons? I'm not sure)It's not you necessarily that rubbed me the wrong way, it's this entire conversation. It's also that Jews have been persecuted for like ever, so I do get slightly defensive when I perceive it happening. If Jewish people were trying to force everyone to have their sons circumcised I would get people taking a position on it, but they aren't, instead we have a country making it illegal for Jewish people to follow the customs of their faiths, and that does bother me.
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With respect to your Jewish heritage @CanadianMama I don't believe that freedom to practice one's religion should extend to violating the human rights of an unconsenting minor. A baptism does not violate the child, although I probably would be livid just as @beam said if someone did try to baptise my child. The question I posed at the beginning, which no one has yet to answer, is how far should freedom of religion extend when it comes to minors? Which practices are allowable? I think we can all agree that female circumcision of a child is wrong, as is giving drugs to children. We have cases of child suicide bombers in the middle east, and practices like the Shi'a custom of Ashura. There is also debate about issues that are not physical, such as allowing fundamentalist christians to homeschool their children and teach them creation science. What if a religious ritual required that all new children have their outer ears removed? Where do we draw the line, and why? Is tradition enough of a reason?
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In the Jewish faith its, performed on the eighth day, its called Brit Milah. It stems from the book of Genesis, 17 10-14.
And for Muslims its a tradition in the Hadith, the book that follows Muhammad teachings, its not in the Qu'ran. But as the Hadiths give guidance to Muslims, they follow his tradition as Muhammad was circumcised, but its optional.
As for the slaughtering of animals both by Jews and Muslims, in the time of need all that must be said is Gods name and grace. I know a little about Judaism because I had this discussion with Dw who is Jewish if we had a little boy, and I've spent 18 months in one of the most religious provinces of Afghanistan.
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I don't think babtism is comparable. It's a ceremony that means something to those who have the same beliefs, not something physical and permanent. I have no religion, so that makes me bias.
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No @katescrazymom, that makes you objective, not bias.
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Here is a link:
http://www.circs.org/index.php/Reviews/Rates/Global
Here are some interesting links
http://www.noharmm.org/jewhouseholds.htm
http://www.jewishcircumcision.org/thejmonthly1991.htm
And something taken from wiki:
The anti-circumcision movement and brit shalom
Main articles: Circumcision controversies and Brit shalom (naming ceremony)Some contemporary Jews choose not to circumcise their sons.[49] They are assisted by a small number of Reform and Reconstructionist rabbis, and have developed a welcoming ceremony that they call the brit shalom ("Covenant [of] Peace") for such children, also accepted by Humanistic Judaism.[50][51]
This ceremony of brit shalom is not officially approved of by
the Reform or Reconstructionist rabbinical organizations, who make the
recommendation that male infants should be circumcised, though the issue
of converts remains controversial[52][53] and circumcision of converts is not mandatory in either movement.[54]However, the connection of the Reform movement to an
anti-circumcision, pro-symbolic stance is a historical one. From the
early days of the movement in Germany, some classical Reformers hoped to
replace ritual circumcision "with a symbolic act, as has been done for
other bloody practices, such as the sacrifices."[55] As a result, many European Jewish fathers during the nineteenth century chose not to circumcise their sons, including Theodore Herzl.[56] In the US, an official Reform resolution in 1893 abolished circumcision for converts,[57]
and this ambivalence towards the practice has carried over to
classical-minded Reform Jews today. In Rabbi Elyse Wechterman's essay A Plea for Inclusion,
she argues that, even in the absence of circumcision, committed Jews
should never be turned away, especially by a movement "where no other
ritual observance is mandated". She goes on to advocate for an alternate
covenant ceremony, brit atifah, for both boys and girls as a welcoming ritual into Judaism.[58]
With a continuing negativity towards circumcision still present within a
minority of modern-day Reform, Judaic scholar Jon Levenson has warned
that if they "continue to judge brit milah to be not only
medically unnecessary but also brutalizing and mutilating...the
abhorrence of it expressed by some early Reform leaders will return with
a vengeance", proclaiming that circumcision will be "the latest front
in the battle over the Jewish future in America."[59] Nevertheless, it has "remained a central rite" in Reform Judaism,[60] and the Union for Reform Judaism has, since 1984, trained and certified over 300 practicing mohels under its "Berit Mila Program".[61]In Israel,
the small minority of Jewish and non-Jewish families that chose not to
have their sons circumcised, has formed a support group in the year
2000. Over two and a half years, 200 couples have enlisted.[62]
Meanwhile, Ya'acov Malkin, the academic director of the College of
Judaism as Culture in Israel, who circumcised his own son 50 years
before "because of habit, because it was a custom, it is a custom of the
Jews", says of circumcision: "I don't regard it as a religious act at
all... if it's medically not necessary, it's not necessary." The U.S.A
based Secular and Humanistic Jews Movement, that also has members in Israel, argues that "circumcision is not required for Jewish identity."[62]"Magic things are fond of deceptions.” ― Tom Robbins -
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@Canadianmama we have opposing views on this subject and thats ok but I have to ask... How can the two even compare? I mean when a child is baptized there is no evidence later in life if they choose that religion isn't for them. IMO there is a huge difference between dropping some symbolic water on a child and removing a piece of tissue from their body. In my former religion either catholic or christian, I didn't pay too close attention, we were confirmed which gave us the opportunity to continue with our faith should we choose. Would it not be suffice to make such a huge decision at that point, when the child can make the decision for themself?
@pallasathene I think this made my stance pretty clear c:
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@Canadianmama I'm glad it wasn't me but more the topic. I really meant no disrespect c:
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Something else to keep in mind with regard to circumcision and insisting on waiting to age of consent - when grown men make the decision to convert to Judaism, if there are not already circumcised, they actually do NOT get circumcised - the tradition is to ssimply make a pin prick ( no pun intended) for a symbolic gesture to show ttheir joinint the covenant.
And Canadianmama - I am right there with you!
@regp - that is my understanding - any circumcision before age of consent - but the only people theoretically impacted would be those who do so for rreligious reasons because MOST people who don't have the religious tratdition to do so are not going to insist their child be circumcised
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twinmommy2004 said:
Something else to keep in mind with regard to circumcision and insisting on waiting to age of consent - when grown men make the decision to convert to Judaism, if there are not already circumcised, they actually do NOT get circumcised - the tradition is to ssimply make a pin prick ( no pun intended) for a symbolic gesture to show ttheir joinint the covenant.
And Canadianmama - I am right there with you!
@regp - that is my understanding - any circumcision before age of consent - but the only people theoretically impacted would be those who do so for rreligious reasons because MOST people who don't have the religious tratdition to do so are not going to insist their child be circumcised
@twinmommy2004 - Are you speaking specifically of Germany? I'm not sure about the circ rates there, but here in the US, boys are cut all day long and it has nothing to do with religion.If the pin prick is ok for adult men, why isn't the symbolic gesture ok for infants?I'm on the Internet Explorer! -
The US is pretty much the only country left that circs widely for non-religious reasons. Elsewhere uncut is generally the norm.
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In my opinion it's interesting that the same people who preach to have choice are so anti someone else having the same choice when it comes to the life of their child. My son suffered NO ill effects from his circ. I'm not Jewish but my husband felt strongly that it should be done. I have held my Jewish godson at his brits... With a REFORM Rabbi performing the ritual. As I didn't have kids and wasn't Jewish it was a new experience for me. But I can assure you that he giggled through the whole thing. Even peed in the Rabbi's face.
That being said... Taking away my choice, especially if I were Jewish and felt that it was important, is just not ok. Those that support it only like it because it suits your agenda. Life is about choices. The statistics on complications are over inflated... just like the statistics from the pro circ side of infection and other issues is over inflated. Let the parents decide what is appropriate for their children. And be sensable about it.
Super suprised that no one bit on my abortion comment. Seriously... I will bet that most of the people on this thread that are anti circ are pro abortion. Cause, they don't want to judge anyone right?
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@DaBomb It is not about taking away your choices, it is about giving the child the right to choose for themselves. I It is about only allowing people to choose for themselves, not for others. As for supporting it because it suits my agenda, I suppose that is true. I am a humanist, I believe every person has the right to make their own decisions, and that no one should have their human rights violated in the name of religion. That is the entirety of my "agenda". It doesn't do anything for me personally. I don't have a penis, or even any sons. I will always continue to support anything that I feel will lead to free choice and equal human rights. The same can be said for the other said however. Those who oppose it only do so to support their own agenda, whether that agenda be regarding religion or cosmetics or what have you. That is just how the world works. We support things that we believe in, or that give us some advantage.
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Really? Are you certain? There are studies that show fetus's as young as 6 weeks can feel pain. My faith tells me that life begins at conception. I support your right to believe otherwise. So why is it so hard for you to support my right to make decisions based on my faith with regard to my child? And although you don't chose to pierce your childs ears or tattoo them at a young age (for cultural reasons of course) you don't seek to outlaw those practices. Why are some people so facinated by the status of my son's penis? As far as I can tell from the laundry it's in fine working order.
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What about piercing little baby girls ears? Or taking your child to the dentist? Or the doctor? Or getting immunnization shots?
Everything I mentioned above can cause harm, serious injury and even sadly, sometimes death.
Should we wait for the children to be "of age" to give consent before us parents do all these things to them?
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It is not for cultural reasons that I choose not to tattoo and pierce my child, and in many states it is indeed illegal for children under 18 to have these things done. I support those laws as well. I'm not going to get into the life begins at conception debate right now, I have done that elsewhere and it is not relevant to this thread. As far as supporting your right to make decisions based on your faith, that is fine! Make those decisions FOR YOURSELF. As soon as those decisions affect others, whether it be your children or society as a whole, that is where I draw the line. As far as being fascinated with your son's penis, nope, that is simplifying the issue. I am however fascinated by the things people will do in the name of faith, it has been a study of mine for quite a few years now.
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Thanks @despair. I'm thinking that immunizations are still required... but there are serious side effects in some children. I'm thinking about my son having to have a tooth filled at 3 and the laughing gas and all of that and how it might have gone wrong. Or what about just the every day boo boos that fill our childrens lives? Do we ignore those because there might be an adverse reaction? Or the fact that my son had ear tubes twice? His ears are they way they are because God made them that way... I guess it's ok.. I should leave that alone? Of course if I had, he'd be deaf now. But that was way more traumatic than his cir. Especially the 2nd set. But that's ok cause it's not about his PENIS!











