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more wedding talks... cont in comment..
  • meandmy243meandmy243
    Posts: 6,366Member
    So lastnight my bf finds my list o'wedding stuff.. weve been discussing it for a few months now and alot in the last month or so.. anyways it has my dress the brides maids dress the flower girl and groomsman and ring bearer stuff.. ever since my bf decided it will be a formal wedding the list has grown.. Its got just about everything and its all budgeted out by needs wants and extras.. anyways he looks at me and says well we better get cracking since he wants to get married on the 4th of july 2014... now remember were not engaged... he will not ask me to marry him till he buys the ring.. And he has big plans.. his idea is that we get married on the 4th that way we can have a bbq reception and end the night with fireworks we will come home that night and honeymoon the next 4 days at the beach cause i really want to go out on a charter fishing trip..
    mom of wild children
    going to the chapel 7/5/2014
  • meandmy243meandmy243
    Posts: 6,366Member
    Hes looking over the budget and approving that im going cheap as possible i told him no more than 3 groomsman and bridesmaids.. hes ok with that.. im just kinda suprised he wants so much envolvement..
    mom of wild children
    going to the chapel 7/5/2014
  • AnonUser26
    Posts: 1,144Guest
    Professor doesn't let me pick a damn thing without him!
  • meandmy243meandmy243
    Posts: 6,366Member
    Thats why i shop alone.. I put the web address of where i found my dress down on the paper... Out of the 20 or so dresses he picks the one i want as the one he likes.. i just wtote the basic site address no other details.. he was on his phone... So no search history.. I think our taste in stuff is pretty much the same othere than bridesmaid dresses.. i dont know any of my friends who would wear a full camo brides made dresses im going with sage and a camo sash..
    mom of wild children
    going to the chapel 7/5/2014
  • Charlotte_SometimesCharlotte_Sometimes
    Posts: 1,756Member
    At first my DW went with me to look at dresses.  Then she decided she didn't want to know what I was wearing.  So I actually ended up picking something she'd seen before but she had also seen soooo many that she didn't know it was the same one, lol.   My poor boys (18 and 13 at the time) will probably never want to see another wedding dress as long as they live, I drove THEM crazy with pictures.  My younger son actually went with me to try on dresses to make my final selection... but hey, that's what you do when you have a crappy mom and a "BFF" who was anything but.  Take your adolescent son along. :)  He does have good taste!
    "But a lesson must be lived
    In order to be learned"

    Ani DiFranco, Manhole
  • meandmy243meandmy243
    Posts: 6,366Member
    Lol i can just imgine my oldest.. ear phones on itouch locked infront of his face
    mom of wild children
    going to the chapel 7/5/2014
  • PandamandaPandamanda
    Posts: 134Member
    My wedding is in October and my DF helps pick everything except my dress. He will not see it until the day of the wedding because he doesn't want to but ours is pretty big and we are budgeted. If u have a big family, enlist their help! I have his aunt making ny wedding shoes, a family friend busseling(sp?) my dress. Enlist people if you can!!
  • meandmy243meandmy243
    Posts: 6,366Member
    We havent announced it yet... so im sure when the time comes we will have help.. probably to many hands in the honey pot...
    mom of wild children
    going to the chapel 7/5/2014
  • AnonUser26
    Posts: 1,144Guest
    Professor saw mine the second it came in, hell, he helped me put it on! Mine is Halloween night.
  • PandamandaPandamanda
    Posts: 134Member
    http://weddingunveils.com/camo-powered

    Thought of you @meandmy243

  • meandmy243meandmy243
    Posts: 6,366Member
    @pandamanda lol thanks
    mom of wild children
    going to the chapel 7/5/2014
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