Can your mum take the toddler seperately so she doesn't count as a guess and your mum can look after her all day.
Otherwise no I wouldn't take her. I agree with not having a toddler there if your attention is devided.
many_moons_ago said:Can your mum take the toddler seperately so she doesn't count as a guess and your mum can look after her all day.This is exactly what I was thinking. If your mom can't maybe another family member?
as a former life guard, here is my 2 cents.
you know your 2 year old best. does she listen? will she stay with grandma or will she want to be with you? if she will flip everytime you walk away then dont bring her. if she listens welll and stops doing whatever it is when you ask, you might be ok. the 2 times i went in w/ kiddos were kids 2 or 3 whos mom turned her back for 1 minute and the kid just walked away. soooo...
aslo if your 9 year old understands the danger, she mgiht feel better doing a girls day later in the week knowing her isster is safer that way. 9 year olds are freaky smart somedays :)