@gramalibby that's a good point, we do that too.. out to dinner the week after, candy after, flowers after.
Aw, @soupermom, I totally get the point. My parents have always done that and it's always made me a little sad that they don't acknowledge/gift each other on holidays. And yes, I know.. gifts have nothing to do with love etc.. but it's a sweet gesture! I hate shopping for DH, so the idea certainly appeals to me on that end of it!