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On the couch tonight.
  • OxiMOMOxiMOM
    Posts: 3,028Member
    Husband seems to have a stick up his ass every tuesday. It's his friday and he has an early shift, so I know he's tired but the hissy fits he throws are getting to be too much. He was in bed by the time I got home and when I went up and tried to hold him he pushed me away.

    I came down here and have myself camped out in the livingroom. Normally when one of us leaves bed to come down the other follows. This is the first time we have ever gone to sleep without saying I love you since he moved in.

    I know we will be okay just feeling really crappy as I don't know what I did to make him so mad at me. Of course that is making me mad at him. I almost wanna go wake him up and tell him that if he's gonna ignore me like this he can just get out. I won't of course and I won't see him until late tomorrow since I work a double tomorrow.

    I'm gonna go wallow in my sorrows now. I know for some of you this seems like no big deal at all but even one night going to bed angry is tearing me apart. We have only been married 6 months and 2 days. :(
  • InsanityandChaosInsanityandChaos
    Posts: 1,924Member
    Big hugs!!!
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  • CanadianMamaCanadianMama
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    @OxiMOM (((((((HUGS))))))) It'll be okay!

    community-manager


  • serenitynowserenitynow
    Posts: 2,175Member
    he's probably just tired and i'm sure it's nothing against you. when i'm really tired or dh is, we can get kinda beasty. i'm sure it will be fine tomorrow. if i were you, i would go right back into bed and sleep there. maybe he just had a bad day, doesn't feel well, stress....i think if you sleep on the couch you'll be turning it into something bigger than what it is. just sleep in your own bed and talk to him tomorrow.
  • Anonymous
    Posts: 29,314
    My husband gets really moody when he is tired. It most likely has nothing to do with you. Tomorrow is another day and hopefully a better one. I know at times i feel the same way when things aren't going right--but they always seem to work out. ~Hugs~
  • unforgivenunforgiven
    Posts: 12,700Confessional Manager
    I'm inclined to agree with @fitzpatk. I know what you're going through... ((hugs))

    confessional-manager

    "What looks like torture is a time to rejoice
    What sounds like thunder is a comforting voice
    When what is beautiful looks broken and crushed
    And I say I don't know you
    But you say it's finished"
  • Anonymous
    Posts: 29,314
    i'm sorry. that sucks. remind him that sympathy pains don't count if he's a dick about it!
  • OxiMOMOxiMOM
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    He finally came around about an hour later. Came down and said he was sorry ect. I told him it's fine if ur cranky bit don't text me at work all pissed off and bitching about something I can't fix, then shove me away when I do come home.

    I was actually alot more comfortable on the couch go figure. Little man was up in my ribs a few days ago and did something to me (I'm assuming brused my ribs.) I can't sit or stand or lay on my sides without pain. I have to be almost flat on my back. Ne way the couch seemed to have better support.

    He tried to be sweet but woke me several times during the night. Damn video games. Then I took a nap between jobs and he forgot to wake me and I ended up being Half an hour late for work.
    Oh well he's being sweet now I swear to god he has his man period once a week.
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  • OxiMOMOxiMOM
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    Angel I have a dr's appt in the morning! I came off my horse when I was a teen into some rocks and broke several ribs this isn't broken ribs thank god but hurts none the less. I'm gonna ask about pressure wraping and see if that's safe durning pregnancy hopefully it is
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  • OxiMOMOxiMOM
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    Doc said if the pain keeps up over the weekend she will have me go to a chiropractor.
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