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  • AloneOverseasAloneOverseas
    Posts: 2,240Member
    It is done! We are now a LEGALLY recognized family! The judge said so! It was so interesting and I made everyone laugh a few times, too! Lol. And I cried. And we are now going out (myself and the boys) for the afternoon, then dinner tonight as a FAMILY! :)
    I love purple; I love cats. Imagine if cats were purple ...
  • BeerWenchBeerWench
    Posts: 2,820Member
    Congratulations!!!
    :¦:-•:*'""*:•.-:¦:-•** She who leaves a trail of glitter is never forgotten**•-:¦:-•:*'""*:• -:¦:-
  • MistressHeidiMistressHeidi
    Posts: 973Member
    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Yay!! That's so wonderful for all of you!!
  • SchweddyBallsSchweddyBalls
    Posts: 3,254Member
    *KNUCKLEFUCKINBUMPAWESOMENESS*
    I'm the nicest person you will ever meet, UNTIL you fuck with me or the betches I love.......
  • CanadianMamaCanadianMama
    Posts: 9,614Administrator, Moderator
    That's so exciting!!! Congratulations!!!! 

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  • [Deleted User]
    Posts: 1,551
    Yaaaaay!!!!! I was thinking about this just an hour ago! So happy for you
  • momsaidnomomsaidno
    Posts: 1,805Member
    very exciting! good for you

  • RahsgirlRahsgirl
    Posts: 329Member
    What a wonderful announcement!! Congrats to you and your FAMILY!!
  • shouldcleanshouldclean
    Posts: 2,383Member
    Congratulations! That is awesome!
  • PigeonPigeon
    Posts: 681Guest
    Congrats! So happy for you and your family!
  • NikkiNikki
    Posts: 1,791Member
    That is amazing!! Congratulations and thanks for sharing such a blessing with us! XOXO
  • Lakegirl34
    Posts: 1,786Member
    Congratulations!
  • CrashCrash
    Posts: 8,215Member
    Right on, @Aloneoverseas!!! Together forever! Woohoo.
    See ya in another life, sister!
  • CalliopemarieCalliopemarie
    Posts: 4,341Member
    Congrats
    i am insane!!! mwahahahaha
  • SassySassy
    Posts: 2,451Member
    SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!
  • AnonUser34
    Posts: 1,799Guest
    Yay!! Congrats :) So So happy for you and your family.
  • MamaAce
    Posts: 404Member
    Congrats! My DH and I are filing the papers this week for him to adopt my oldest son. He's been daddy to him since he was 13 months and now he's almost 15 and we're finally getting it done. I can't wait!
  • SammieSammie
    Posts: 7,283Administrator, Moderator
    Very very happy for all of you!!! Congratulations!!! >:D<

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  • momofdbbmomofdbb
    Posts: 9,096Member
    Yeah!!!!!!! \m/
    " Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
    " I'm a leafe on the wind..watch how I soar ." Wash :((
    " Oh the wall had it comming.' Sherlock Holmes
    yea I am geek !!
  • BallewzerBallewzer
    Posts: 130Member
    Congratulations!!!!! Wishing your family many years of happiness love n togetherness! :x
  • GrainneGrainne
    Posts: 863Member
    Congratulations!!!!!
  • notperfectnotperfect
    Posts: 744Member
    Congratulations!
  • ktsmamaktsmama
    Posts: 354Member
    So incredibly happy for all of you!!!!! >:D<
  • AloneOverseasAloneOverseas
    Posts: 2,240Member
    Thank you! It has been a fabulous day! Sooo happy these boys are now in our lives forever. oUR boys!

    Here's what happened ...


    We arrive at the courthouse, it's quiet and empty. Hmmm. I ask someone, we are at the wrong building! Lol. So with just minutes to go, we go to the right place where everyone is waiting. Imagine that!! Haha. So we chit chat, then I ask ... Do you think the judge will let me get a picture of him with the boys? The room fills with laughter! Are you kidding? It's judge so and so, he's (can't think of the word they used, but kind of like a stick in the mud). Oh, well it wouldn't hurt to ask, would it? This would be great for the boys memory books. A few chuckles and they (boys' lawyer, our lawyer and the social workers) all agree to have someone ask. They approach the judge's assistant. She disappears then comes back and said, he said sure, after the proceedings! Woohoo! Boy, was everyone shocked! Lol. So, we go in and sit down ... there are 11 present plus the judge and his assistant. Two attys for the Ministry, two social workers, the boys' atty, our atty, us and a social work student. Phew! The judge was very pleased to see the boys! He commented on how nice they looked in their 'where's Waldo' outfits! Lol. They had on black pants and black and white striped matching shirts (their choice!). Anyway, the judge asked J's about his trip with us to the US and all the places he visited. I drip fed him a few of the states (there were 26, so I kept it to about six) then just added'and lots of other places'. The judge chuckled and said it might have been easier to ask where he didn't go! Lol. So, he talked some more and said how he'd read about all we've been through and how pleased he was that we had made a commitment to these boys and on and on. I was getting teary! It was all a bit much.  About twenty or so minutes later he makes his rulings (8 of them), declares us a legal family and announces photo time! The bys go up to the bench and stand on either side of him. I go up and take a picture. He asks me if it was ok, I said I'm not sure, I don't have my glasses on! Everyone laughs and I pass the camera to the judge. He said, do over! A microphone was covering D's face! Lol. So DH comes up and he takes over photo duty. All good. Phew! Lol. The judge had earlier asked if we wanted the picture because we knew he was presiding. I answered with ... I've never been here before and have no idea who any judges are in Tauranga! He just laughed. And to think everyone thought he would say NO to pictures! Lol. I guess no one has asked before. So, we left the courtroom and went to the hall for more pictures with attys and social workers. The boys were on a high and so were we. Actually, I think everyone was! It has been such an incredibly fabulous day!!  Would have been perfect if my DD and SIL could have been there as well. We have now completed our perfect family! ♥
    I love purple; I love cats. Imagine if cats were purple ...
  • notperfectnotperfect
    Posts: 744Member
    Thank you for sharing your story it brought tears to my eyes!
  • beambeam
    Posts: 1,070Member
    :)
    "Magic things are fond of deceptions.” ― Tom Robbins
  • AloneOverseasAloneOverseas
    Posts: 2,240Member
    Lol ... Can you tell I'm still buzzing??! Haha ... and NO alcohol or drugs have induced my high!! :)
    I love purple; I love cats. Imagine if cats were purple ...
  • NinLee
    Posts: 729Member
    Awesome! Congratulations :)

  • Peace
    Posts: 2,092Member
    Aww, congrats, @AloneOverseas! So glad you all found each other!! :x
  • OpheliaOphelia
    Posts: 3,341Member
    Congratulations! So haopy for your family :)
    Nothing left to do but smile, smile, smile.. -Grateful Dead<3
  • PurpleFlowersPurpleFlowers
    Posts: 5,650Member
    Awww, congrats :)
    Stay away from my chocolate and nobody gets hurt!

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  • irishlassirishlass
    Posts: 6,727Member
    I am SO SO happy for you!! @four_winds and I were talking about how exciting it is yesterday! Well done mama :) 
    "Be who you are and say what you feel. Because those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter." - Dr. Seuss
  • runbitchrunrunbitchrun
    Posts: 907Member
    Congrats!!!! So great to hear!
  • LifeofchaosLifeofchaos
    Posts: 984Member
    So very happy for you!!!!! I can hear the excitement in your post.... Made me teary!!!' what a great day for you all :-)
  • KellynnKellynn
    Posts: 1,988Member
    Congratulations!! I was thinking about you yesterday, and wondering how it went. Sounds like it was fabulous!!
  • chaosmomchaosmom
    Posts: 3,846Member
    Congratulations momma!! As much as these boys are a blessing for you, you are a blessings for them. So happy for your family :)
  • unforgivenunforgiven
    Posts: 12,700Confessional Manager
    This is so great!!

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    "What looks like torture is a time to rejoice
    What sounds like thunder is a comforting voice
    When what is beautiful looks broken and crushed
    And I say I don't know you
    But you say it's finished"
  • GingersnapGingersnap
    Posts: 7,331Member
    That's wonderful. Congrats!
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  • mamagonecrazy
    Posts: 76Member
    There is nothing more amazing! Congratulations to you and your family!
  • AloneOverseasAloneOverseas
    Posts: 2,240Member
    Geez guys, now you're making me all teary again! Lol. It was such an amazing day ! The boys were all excited as well. DS6 kept asking, when are we going? at 9am, 9:30am ... After lunch! When are we having lunch? At 11. Can we have it now? Lol. Go play playstation! Lol

    At dinner their social workers joined us as well as two other CPS staff and we got flowers and a card and the boys each got a card and a game. Very unexpected! We decided not to rush into getting anything for the boys that day but take them out one weekend and get something together ... they have been hinting at iPods! Lol

    And last night at bedtime, the two were just nuts! Lol. They were laughing and being silly and had been calling DH and I by our first names (as normal) and also mum and dad! Lol. It's amazing to see and experience this in our lives! :D
    I love purple; I love cats. Imagine if cats were purple ...
  • organicbabyorganicbaby
    Posts: 1,488Member
    Congratulations Mum!
  • breezybreezy
    Posts: 3,483Member
    \o/ 

    So happy for you guys!

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  • OxiMOMOxiMOM
    Posts: 3,028Member
    SO excited for you and your story was amazing too!!!  Just goes to show that sometimes the Judges we think are so scary are actually really nice friendly people!
  • RedTiger
    Posts: 487Member
    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!
    "The meaning of our very existence is created though stories, tales and imagination. They are at the very core of humanity." -Tuomas Holopainen
  • mommacog
    Posts: 70Member
    Congrats!!  What a wonderful day for your new "official" family!  Sounds like a happy beginning for all of you!
  • GrainneGrainne
    Posts: 863Member
    Reading your post about what happened at court makes me teary. So happy for you all and especially those two precious boys.
  • AloneOverseasAloneOverseas
    Posts: 2,240Member
    Thanks chickies! It was definitely better than I ever imagined possible! And we're all still buzzing! Lol
    I love purple; I love cats. Imagine if cats were purple ...