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Have you ever dated a not so goodlooking guy/girl, then found yourself attracted to them?
  • harmony43
    Posts: 2Member
    I dated a guy that was short, balding, never seen a gym in his life. But he treats me so well. Has the the most amazing smile..melts my heart.
  • chaosmomchaosmom
    Posts: 3,846Member
    I dated a guy that I didn't find attractive in any way when I was in high school just to piss my mom off (and it did!!). Had a purple mohawk, leather, spikes, chains, perv from hell! Let me add, I was a shy, goodie goodie. Well, his sorry butt grew on me & he lost the punk gear. Now, 15 years & 4 kids later, we're not together anymore but I still love him & he's still my best friend :)
  • Ashraela
    Posts: 2Member
    Yes. I fell for my best friend. He's a big dope, but the kindest man who would give anything to anyone. And he has the cutest little boy smile in the world. Unfortunately he is my best friend and we've chosen not to risk the friendship for what ifs. (and since he sometimes drives me crazy - it's probably a good decision)
  • [Deleted User]
    Posts: 5,232
    Yes, and I loved him because he was my best friend. I was not in love with him, though, and that was heartbreaking to realize.
  • Anonymous
    Posts: 29,315
    Yes, I did. A tall, dark Italian with gorgeous green eyes. Kinda nerdy looking though, and shy as all getout. Awkward and clumsy. Everybody thought he was gay because he never dated. He's been my husband for 15 years and 3 kids now, and he's the best husband, father, provider, protector. He still hasn't come out of his shell around people he doesn't know well, and he's still geeky as hell. But he's MY geek, and I couldn't ask for a better life partner. Oh, and he's definitely not gay :)
  • lexieloraine
    Posts: 38Member
    I hooked up, on a regular basis, with an ugly dude. He was good in bed and he wanted more from the relationship. I eventually found him attractive. Personality can make an ugly guy cute or a cute guy ugly.
  • Anonymous
    Posts: 29,315
    yes a cop with a minor belly moderate acne and two large noticable moles on his face...8 years later i still adore him and never want to be without him or our family..i think he's hot and know other women think so too good thing he's so moral :-)
  • AnonUser23
    Posts: 2,278Guest
    Yes! I married him! :)
  • OmgmetooOmgmetoo
    Posts: 579Member
    Married to him. :) I was not attracted to him in the beginning but it felt like I had known him forever. He wasn't like any other guy I had ever dated.
  • Anonymous
    Posts: 29,315
    Yes and I married him. And as the years go on he keeps getting better looking and i seem to be going backwards. I'm glad I gave him a chance back then...We were made for each other!
  • loveitloveit
    Posts: 1,738Member
    Yes!!! On many occasions!
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