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I am so worried..............
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    My hubby get out of work at 6:00- 6:30am.... It takes him 15 minutes to get home everyday. Now it's almost 10:30 and he's not home. I am so worried, I called his job he's not there, I keep blowing up his cell phone he's not picking up but it's ringing. This is strange, he's never done this before. He's always home on time, if he's going to be late he usually calls to let me know. We have a 3:00 doctor's appointment today for our son and it's 2 hours away. We should be getting ready. 

    I am so worried, what should I do? I don't want to contact his family, they're also 2 hours away. I don't want to worry anyone else more than I am right now. Plus they would know less than I know. 
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    well behaved women seldom make history
  • LA_PygmyHerderLA_PygmyHerder
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    First of all, BREATHE. Panicking helps no one, especially yourself. Next call the highway patrol and hospitals, just like @verdictlesslife said. Just stay calm, make the calls, and check the driveway. My ex used to fall asleep in the car in the driveway the second he turned off the ignition when he worked 3rd shift.
  • atlantamommy
    Posts: 212Member
    do you have another car?  Can you drive the route between home and his work?
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    I called his job around 8 and the person who picked up said he wasn't there. He works 2 jobs so he's always extra tired when he gets off and he's often telling me how he almost fell asleep on the road.
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    No i don't have another car, or a license. today we were suppose to go to the dmv so i can get my learners permit done. 
  • ktsmamaktsmama
    Posts: 354Member
    atlantamommy said:

    do you have another car?  Can you drive the route between home and his work?




    If you don't have another car, do you have a friend that could go out for you? Hope everything turns out ok! 
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  • atlantamommy
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    I would call the police and ask them to check the roads.  I'm so sorry!!  Try to stay calm.  I know it is way easier said than done. What part of atl are you in?
  • NY2ATL
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    we don't have any friends here. we are 4 months new in atl, so we really don't know any1 at all. big mistake i made. i copy down everything else but his license plate. 
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  • NY2ATL
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    nope nothing. they're in the car

  • AnonUser35
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    You can always call your insurance company also. They would have the number.
  • NY2ATL
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    I don't know the routes he takes. 
  • atlantamommy
    Posts: 212Member
    I'm in the Snellville stone mountain area.... Are you close to me?  I could drive around and look.
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    i called 911 and they gave me the 2 local hospitals. I called they don't have any1 by that name. and his phone is not dead because it's ringing. when it's dead it doesn't ring at all.

  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    @atlantamommy, we're near buckhead. 
  • atlantamommy
    Posts: 212Member
    those roads should be well traveled.  Someone would most likely see a car off the road.  I would call the police station and see if they can help.  Try his work again, too.  Tell them you can't find them and see if anyone remembers him saying anything.
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    i called the police and they said there were several accidents. they gave me the hospitals, i called but there's no one by that name.
  • CanadianMamaCanadianMama
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    His work might also have his license plate on file, definitely ask. I am sending you huge hugs!! I would be freaking out too!

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  • LA_PygmyHerderLA_PygmyHerder
    Posts: 1,239Member
    Idea, call his work, ask someone to check the lot for his car. Does where he works have security? If so, they'll be able to tell you when he left
  • shouldcleanshouldclean
    Posts: 2,378Member
    Did you call the hospital or the er? If you called and he is in the er the hospital won't have him as a registered patient. Try calling the er
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    this is weird... i called his job, and he also works security. his co-worker told me he wasn't in when she came in at 7, he wouldn't be because he leaves at 6. 
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    I am so fucking upset right now. He went to his other job and forgot to tell me. How the hell did you forget to tell me when you tell me everything else. but i called that job and his co-worker told me he wasn't in today. WTF, He had me freaking out with worries. How the fuck do you do that? 

    I am sorry ladies for worrying you all. that was so inconsiderate of him. i am so damn mad i can't even control myself. 

     thank you so much, i glad he's ok but i am damn upset at him for not telling me.+

  • atlantamommy
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    so glad he is okay!!  You need some Bailey's in your coffee!!
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  • shouldcleanshouldclean
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    I'm glad he is ok. Husbands are good for that kind of stuff
  • AnonUser35
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    The important thing is that he is okay!
  • atlantamommy
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    at least he is okay.... Until he gets home and you beat him like you own him! 
  • PurpleFlowersPurpleFlowers
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    Glad hes ok!!
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    np :D @LesboMom it was myyyyyy pleasure
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  • battibatti
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    Woo, I was worried too as I read through this, glad he is alright, I do the same thing and panic when DH is late or forgets to call.

    SMSM_s_5

  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    Thank u ladies. I was so worried that something happened to him. This wasn't like him. I'm so glad he's fine. U ladies r so damn supportive, it's amazing.
  • ktsmamaktsmama
    Posts: 354Member
    Glad all is well!! Cut him some slack this time. But if he does it again, he gets shanked! LOL :D
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    Yes @eapple, it is awesome. I so appreciate u all. I feel like this site is full of a group of women I can count on. Thank u all.
  • atlantamommy
    Posts: 212Member
    @eapple I couldn't get there and back in time to get my kids from school, by the time I found out where ny2atl lived, but if we hadn't had any news by the time I picked them up, the kids and I were going on a trip to buckhead!.

    and @ny2atl I am not that far.  I would be happy to get together so that you know someone here!
  • NY2ATL
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    Omg..... That would be super cool. U r so awesome @atlantamommy.
  • atlantamommy
    Posts: 212Member
    great!  We leave in the morning for California, but maybe when we get back!  We have spring break the first week of April... Would that work?
  • NY2ATL
    Posts: 140Member
    Oh yes definitely. Keep me posted, yayyyyy.
  • onetimeonetime
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    This site IS AWESOME... 
    Suck it up buttercup!
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