Dh and I got married after dating for 6 months. In a lot of ways he is a great guy. We have been together for six years now and I keep wondering if this is all there is?? I really think I would be happier if I was single. We have absolutely nothing in common! NOTHING! Except of course, for the kids and the bills. That is the only thing we talk about. We never (and I mean NEVER) go anywhere or do anything. Most of our lives are very separate from each other. He works all day while I am home with the kids (I am in school full time too) and I talk to him for about 30 min tops, then we get dinner and get the kids to bed. He then goes out to his car to smoke a cigar (the only place that I allow it) and to talk on the phone to his friends, parents, sister's etc. Then he comes in, has something to eat (this is at about 10pm) and goes to the bedroom and passes out. If I try to initiate sex, about 9 times out of 10 he tells me that he is tired and has to get up early for work and to leave him alone! Yet, if I ask him if he is happy with the way things are, he says yes!!!! He tells me that he loves me/still in love with me, finds me attractive blah, blah, blah. He actually seems like he is happy with our relationship. I am not!! It is boring, annoying and lonely as hell. I really think that I am done with this. I have tried really hard and he is putting forth zero effort. I am sick of it. I was happier and had a ton more energy, fun and friends when I was a single mom with two children. I really feel like I am fed up  and do not want this to be the rest of my life. I tell him how I feel and he of course says what he thinks I want to hear and then nothing changes. He isn't a bad guy, but I am not happy.