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To the OC: I think you might be a little misguided It might make you feel a little better knowing that not all children who receive "special education" are destined to be a drain on society.
My son gets special services because he is on the Autism spectrum. He is also "gifted" in terms of his IQ. He is extremely intelligent, but just needs a little extra to catch up in some areas where he is lacking.
As an aside: I was in a "gifted program" in elementary school & all it did was alienate me from my classmates. It also gave me a superior attitude that didn't serve me well later in life.
I guess I'm trying to say, as nicely as I can, is that every kid deserves the chance to be the best he/she can. I agree that gifted kids should have the resources to flourish, but it's just incorrect to assume that special needs kids aren't going to contribute to society.When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain. ~Mark Twain -
I agree with you. My son has special services for his issues with autism. He is smart and I believe he will contribute to society when he gets older. Heck his aide that helped him in school told him he was autistic." Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
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I agree completely YoMomma! There are some children who will never progress much, but they benefit from the social aspects of the school system and still learn even though it's not "book" learning. Then there are the kids who catch up by middle or HS and only need some assistance who go on to lead productive lives.
By her standards, I'm sure the years of speach therapy and tutoring for my learning disability was a waste. That being said, I have NEVER taken one penny of assistance as an adult. Nor have I needed it. You see, I went to college, got a job, got married and lived my life. But I'm sure back in 1977 when I was being taught to read despite my dyslexia, there were those who thought I would never amount to much. And would never have believed that I would get a degree from a university.
Good thing I wasn't limited by people who thought I couldn't do it.... and who thought it was a drain on society.
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@YoMomma, use this list for your argument. There are a couple of baddies on there, but a LOT of authors.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_people_on_the_autism_spectrum
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@YoMamma said it way nicer than I was about to. I also have a kid on the Autism spectrum, and he is getting special education services at 4 through our amazing public school system. He's a bright kid and once he gets his legs, so to speak, I have no doubt he'll go on to be a productive member of society.
I, too, was in the gifted program beginning in elementary school and I also experienced that alienation from my classmates. In high school I was definitely embittered because the resources weren't there for the advanced programs in my poor school district, but there was always enough money for the football and basketball teams. Yet I still got out of my podunk town, went to college, and do work that I love.
Bottom line is, the special education kids need those resources in order to become successful and functional adults. Sure, maybe not all of them will be huge contributors, but without those funds many, many more would not ever get the chance.
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Just FYI...in the education system, gifted/talented education is a part of special education. Special education just means your child has different learning needs than the average kid that can't be met in the average school setting.If I'm not supposed to do it, how come I can?
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One of my dearest friends growing up spent most of school in the Resource Room getting one on one help.
Growing up she taught me more about life than I would have learned in any class, and I was in G&T classes. And in her passing I have learned even more. Compassion, patience, hope, unbridled enthusiasm, humility, loyalty, true friendship, strength when everything is going against you...she taugh me all of those things.
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Just FYI...in the education system, gifted/talented education is a part of special education. Special education just means your child has different learning needs than the average kid that can't be met in the average school setting.
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@DaBOMB Love your username & yes, yes you are! ;)
@ChristyJ Thank you for that link! I love it.
@penny I try to be calm & tolerant & see all sides of the issue. I really do. But what I really want to do is bitchslap a mofo for being ignorant!
I just can't help commenting when I see these blanket statements. We don't lock people who are "different" away from general view anymore. And also, these days everyone thinks her child is "gifted" or "special" or the second coming. When in reality, in the end, we're all just getting along in the day-to-day bullshit. Maybe I'm seeing things one-sided, but I really don't know what "contribute to society" is supposed to mean. It's all relative. Do you have to make a billion $$ or get a chapter in the history books to be a valuable human being??
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Hmmm. I received both gifted and special education services. I have a gifted IQ and excel in most areas. However, I have Dyscalculia, a specific learning disability that only affects math.
Me too! I haven't mastered math yet, but had to chime in! Difference is I did not receive either gifted or special ed services though I should have received both in school. Huge public school, my mother not aware or advocating, typical "fell through the cracks" kid. So I've had to figure all this out later in life as an adult struggling in college."But a lesson must be lived
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Where I work we serve some severely developmentally delayed adults. Some of our clients are less severely disabled, and will go on to hold simple jobs. But many will remain a financial drain on society. We have a workshop where they may spend their days doing simple factory work that varies depending on the contracts available. Sometimes they put paper clips into packages, sometimes they package pet collars. Some of them are able to work to earn a small income, but nowhere near enough to support themselves financially.
These people may live at home with family, independently with support, or in group home settings. They generally take a city bus to "work" five days a week. Some "lower functioning" people literally color pictures, watch tv, socialize, and just hang out.
Forty years ago we housed them in institutions, and some of them got to lay in piss all day. Some were mistreated by overworked, underpaid staff. Now, at least in my county, these people have the option of a feeling of accomplishment that they go to "work" every day, just like everyone else.
A few days ago, one of the guys with downs syndrome who is in training to be a janitor came into my office. He saw another staff person that he knew very well, and gave her two hugs as he emptied the two trash cans. The person training him (also disabled) redirected him gently that he can't hug when he is doing his job.
I am happy to live in a world where we lend a helping hand to the helpless. I'm sure it costs a lot to care for the kids, and the adults that they grow up to be. But I have truly never worked anywhere where there was so much joy. They are people, too, and they each deserve a chance.
Note that I do NOT work with the many many others who were brought up to speed through special ed services when they were younger, and are out there making it on their own, and "contributing" to society independently! But those people are out there too!
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OK, I agree with all you ladies, and as you know I have a child who has special needs, and will likely need the assistance of these programs when she begins school. She is high functioning, and I'm sure she wil have the ability to lead a good life, and be productive. I don't begrudge a cent of money spent on special needs education.
I do also agree that not enough is being done to lift out and educate the best of the intelligent children in our country, or in the US. The amount of people who complete original and valuable research, who make important contributions to science, who can become intellectual and social leaders is sorely declining. Now, our higher education is some of the best in the world. We see people from countries all over the world come here to study, and they then take their valuable knowledge back to their own countries to improve the standard of living there. It seems like people from this country are all taking business and commerce degrees. The US and Canada were always among the best in the world as far as social issues, technological discoveries, etc. Now we are falling behind? Why? It's a valid question. The OC seems to think it is because not enough money is spent on "gifted children", and she may or may not be right. I do take issue with the idea that the only way to get that extra money would be to take it from those with special needs. The two are not correlated at all, that is faulty thinking. I think the issue is more about a lack of ambition and a sense of entitlement in today's young people, and the cost and accessibility of higher education, but I really don't know. It is a very complicated question. -
The OC had me until she/he suggested that those who receive Special Education Services will not contribute to society. There's a place for everyone in this world, and every person should be valued and should know that they make a difference.
I do agree that we are not 'mining' one of our most valuable resources -- the brightest of our students. It seems that the education system feels that "they're smart enough to do it on their own". Gifted children have a higher depression rate, a higher suicide rate, and are more likely to have social difficulties with their peers. They require not only more academic challenges, but more psychological and social support services. Ask any of the ladies above who were in Gifted Programming -- we're a 'horse of a different color'.
By not supporting our Gifted Students with challenging educational opportunities we are allowing their abilities to languish, and in turn, we are dooming ourselves. In Canada, they talk about the Brain Drain -- the best and the brightest leaving the country for jobs that pay better elsewhere. In the US, we are not even allowing the opportunity for our stars to shine. Our highschools offer Advanced Placement courses, but in Elementary and Middle School there are often no resources for children who need more challenge.
What bothers me most is that the education (and related services) that any child receives is dependent on where they live. Take a look at how the 50 states differ from one another in funding and mandating for Gifted Education:
http://www.davidsongifted.org/db/StatePolicy.aspx
Even in the general classroom, there is great disparity. My husband is a teacher, and his principal lives in a district where his daughter, who is in 4th grade, is doing things in her general education classroom that the 8th graders in DH's district haven't even learned yet. A district 10 miles down the road from us has a SmartBoard in every classroom -- my son's school has only one. Period. There are schools that don't even have one. My husband's highschool doesn't have a business department anymore. What are we doing to Education?
Just think -- if you're bored at work and find the tasks mundane, do you not come to hate your job? The same is happening to our students who are not challenged at school. Differentiated instruction is supposed to help, but with class sizes increasing, it is becoming less and less possible for each child to have their individual needs addressed.
They say that 8% of the population could be identified as Gifted; but without the ability to identify and then properly nurture and support these students, we are doing not only them, but ourselves a great disservice.
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Hitler argued that we should eliminate those who were not genetically perfect (those with special needs) due to the financial drain on society as well. The OC is in that company in my opinion. How do you out a dollar figure on educating children?
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When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain. ~Mark Twain
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@LivinTheDream most people forget that he ( Hitler) cleared out the asylums first. Sarting with the mentally disabled adults and children. He perfected his gas chambers by practicing on them.
We are lucky to have DS going to a new school building it opened this year. Smartboards in every room." Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
" I'm a leafe on the wind..watch how I soar ." Wash :((
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@momofdbb - I've never forgotten that. Ever.
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@notjustmom - yep. And my youngest gets speech therapy. That's it. Big huge drain on your "gifted" kid. I was in gifted classes starting in the 4th grade. Special needs kids were i
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My kid was identified for the GATE (Gifted and Talented Education) Pool. For his entire Elementary School there is one GATE Teacher who works with the kids one hour a week and they have a regular classroom curriculum. ONE Teacher. For "special education" there is one Teacher for each grade level 2-5 and three K/1 classes. I believe the special education needs are being rather well met. Our school is begging for funding for a second Fulltime GATE Teacher and trying to get more of their classroom teachers GATE Certified. His school is one of the few in the district that meet or exceed state standards.Imperfect and proud of it.
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@LivinTheDream I am glad you do. I made sure to tell my DS because they don't always teach that in school." Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
" I'm a leafe on the wind..watch how I soar ." Wash :((
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@ChristyJ - funding is an issue. Maybe your district should put on a special levy and fix that. Keep in mind funding for special needs children is from FEDERAL sources - because many used to feel it was a waste of money. I'm sorry your child only gets 1 hour a week, but I'm going to tell you that if you talk to special needs parents and learn a bit you might find that needs aren't being met the way they need to be special needs children.
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@momofdbb - our country used the disabled and black Americans to test drugs and see what diseases did.
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At Tuskegee for one. That is not far from here. I have told DS a little bit about that. Will tell him more after we have the talk and he knows what a STD is. The USA has it's fair share of skeletons. The camps after Pearl Harbor too. I believe in the " learn your history or you will be doomed to repeat it"" Wibbly wobbly timey wimey ......." The Doctor
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Thinking like this belongs in 1825 not 2012.You are not my thong, so get out of my ass!!
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I wrote out a big long post above, but then just erased the whole thing...I couldn't figure out how to delete it. So, sorry everyone, for the blank entry.
I'm just so fucking annoyed & angry that in two thousand fucking twelve people still think like the OC. It struck a nerve as my kid's first year of special education draws to a close. I went through GATE & it's a fucking joke. Apply yourself & ace your classes if you're so fucking talented.
Sorry. I'm in a foul mood today. I'm going away now! LOL!
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@LivinTheDream, no ones needs are being completely met with current funding and I do think special education should be a top priority. There just is not enough money for everything that is needed and/or wanted in public schools. The Parents with the musically inclined kid want more musical education, the Parents with the artistically inclined kid wants more art education, etcetera.
@YoMomma, I am sorry you are irritated, but please do not insult children like my kid for being gifted. He has needs and challenges as well, and giftedness does not necessarily mean he will get straight "As", it means he learns differently. He may learn quickly in his particular "gifted" area, but will struggle with many things other kids learn easily. I am very careful to make sure he realizes every kid has their abilities, and struggles, to respect and be kind to everyone.
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@Rosie08, Alex won an award they give out monthly for each class for "Random Acts of Kindness." Of course, it was the last month of the school year. I made a bigger deal out of that than his Excellence Award for his second language class. Who cares if he is smart if he is an asshole?Imperfect and proud of it.
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So, other countries manage to work out much better systems of education for both their special needs and their gifted students. What is it they are doing differently? Look at Norway, look at Japan, Finland, South Korea, New Zealand, Australia. All of these countries are ranking far above the US in international testing. Why? What is it that they are able to do differently?
Another point, what do you ladies think about the voucher system? All schools are publicly funded, but specialized. A school for math/science, a school for music/art, a school for children with speech problems, etc... You can also include religious or parochial education. Each parent chooses where to send their children, and the schools are funded according to the number of students attending. -
@PallasAthene, in Kentucky they call those Charter Schools and were just approved. We don't have any in our area yet, but we do have Magnet Schools for arts, languages, science, math which you have to apply to get into and are chosen by Lottery. They have one lanugage school that if you are in that neighborhood you automatically get into and they have a lottery for any remaining openings. Alex's is a combined school where they have a Magnet Program for languages as only part of their school and a basic curriculum. Only 60 kids are given a spot in the Magnet Program by, yes again, lottery. The only time I have ever "won" anything.
I do think individualized education would be a wonderful help, but would only really work in cities. In some rural areas of Kentucky, they usually only have one school for elementary and one that combines middle and high school. How would they be able to work that out?
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Our schools are funded according to how many students attend, and it doesn't work out very well. The nearest centre with enough kids to have multiple schools is a 40 minute drive away. The upshot of this is that we lost half the receptionist and half the librarian last year, as well as one and a half teachers. This year, we're losing the library program AND a whole teaching position. And we're in a rich province.See ya in another life, sister!
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@ChristyJ Please know that I would never insult a child. I'm sorry I came across rough on my last post.
I went through the gifted program in school & the experience was not so great. I was just venting my frustration with the OC's attitude that children who receive special needs education are somehow undeserving & taking resources away from other kids.
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Also, often in those countries special needs student are segregated to "special" schools and often not tested.
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@LivinTheDream can you tell me which of those countries do that? They are all quite advanced socially, and I would be very surprised!
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@Rosie08 in which ways is the US much different from these countries I listed? Even here in Canada we score very near the top of the list, I don't see any huge difference between our school systems. Hard to pin down exactly why.
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@christyJ @curious I didn't consider the geographical aspect... I am a city girl, and I guess it just didn't come to mind. I am thinking though that some specialized schools need not be large. Some private schools operate with very few students. It could even be a "school within a school", maybe taking place in the same building and using the same facilities, but with separate funding and enrollment for separate programs? Just a thought...











