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  • shadylaneshadylane
    Posts: 3,037Member
    Don't need advice, I do everything ur supposed to do, I just want to complain that my coochie is on fucking fire. The one time I fall asleep without getting up to pee after sex and I get a raging uti. How does it happen so easily? I know there's something bad wrong, I was supposed to go to a urologist years ago but I just can't. Its a sign of bladder cancer and I just know that's what it is. I've been getting them for 15 years. Sometimes if they're not too bad I can flush them out without going to the doctor but this is not one of those times. They usually don't even hurt anymore b/c of all the scar tissue, I can just tell I have one by how my pee looks so this must be a bad one. Fuck it hurts
    ~slim shady~
  • Monkeynmoo
    Posts: 1,420Guest
    I feel your pain! I have to remember to pee after sex too or I am in the same boat!
  • French_momFrench_mom
    Posts: 1,540Member
    Same here :(   I have stock of cranberry juice always.  And i need to go get meds for uti once a year.  2 times it went up to my kidney. Doc was not happy with me. 
    It is for me to know and you to dot dot dot.
  • Babymakesthree
    Posts: 496Member
    same with me i get uti mult times a year. i was truly shocked when i didnt get one with this pregnancy! I hope you feel better pretty lady
  • BellaBefanaBellaBefana
    Posts: 8,187Member
    It's also a sign of what docs call "honeymoon cystitis."  don't go straight to cancer...
    Bite me, cupcake!
  • 456Imamom
    Posts: 538Member
    Owee! (as i sit here pregnant and drinking cranberry juice as prevention...)
    Good luck 
    >:D<
  • PurpleFlowersPurpleFlowers
    Posts: 5,634Member
    Ouch is right. I get them from time to time so I feel for you. Hugs mamma! >:D<
    Stay away from my chocolate and nobody gets hurt!

    I think I like who I am becoming...
  • jezebeldelilahjezebeldelilah
    Posts: 337Member
    Azo is awesome for stopping the pain of a uti . It stops it instantly but turns your pee colors.
  • jezebeldelilahjezebeldelilah
    Posts: 337Member
    Hope u feel better soon!
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    well behaved women seldom make history
  • unforgivenunforgiven
    Posts: 12,700Confessional Manager
    Ouch! I'm sorry! >:D< hope you feel better soon.

    confessional-manager

    "What looks like torture is a time to rejoice
    What sounds like thunder is a comforting voice
    When what is beautiful looks broken and crushed
    And I say I don't know you
    But you say it's finished"
  • LesboMomLesboMom
    Posts: 2,848Confessional Manager
    Listen to the ladies - AZO if you don't want to go to the doctor

    confessional-manager

    Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow. -- Helen Keller
  • shadylaneshadylane
    Posts: 3,037Member
    I take the cranberry pills all the time to try and keep it from happening, I always pee before and after sex, I do everything they tell u and still get one at least every couple months. I don't think I've had cancer for 15 years I just think the constant infection has turned into cancer. The doctor even said it was a possibility and I have to go to the specialist but I will never have an extra few hundred laying around. Bf still doesn't understand what it is, he thinks its from being dirty or some shit no matter how many times I try to explain it. The azo doesn't cure it just kills the pain for a little while. Oh well fuck another er bill won't matter I guess
    ~slim shady~
  • PigeonPigeon
    Posts: 681Guest
    I used to get those all the time as a kid. You know what the problem was? Only that area of the body was sensitive to the laundry soap we used, so it caused infections. So you may want to try switching laundry soaps, making sure you don't use bleach of fabric softener on your underwear either. Might be something to try while waiting to see the specialist.
  • PigeonPigeon
    Posts: 681Guest
    *bleach or fabric softener
  • BellaBefanaBellaBefana
    Posts: 8,187Member
    Also, 100% cotton panties, especially in the summer time...they breathe, and you want air circulating your privates.  You probably need to be on a long course of antibiotics to clear up the infection.  Many women need continual low dose antibiotics for chronic bladder infections.

    Go in to the urologist, get the cystoscopy, the doc can bathe the inside of your bladder with antibiotics, a lot can be done, but not if you're afraid to go to the doctor.
    Bite me, cupcake!
  • shadylaneshadylane
    Posts: 3,037Member
    Oh I'm not afraid I would love to get this taken care of for good, I've been living with it for so long. There's just no way I can afford it and I would have to have money up front, they won't just bill me
    ~slim shady~
  • breezybreezy
    Posts: 3,483Member
    That sucks! I'm sorry. I have only had one and it was painful! I was casually dating a guy (not sleeping together) and I had to break it off because he thought I really loved cranberry juice. He bought it for me all the time. 2 months after the infection was gone I was still drinking that shit... I don't particularly like it so I had to cut him loose. lol. I was only 18 it never pooped in to my head to just let him know any part of the truth.