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Scary Mommy Confession 194721
  • CaMommaWthluvx2CaMommaWthluvx2
    Posts: 37Member
    Confession #194721"I'm a loser. Nobody likes me. Not irl friends, not people on SM, nobody. I'm done trying, bc I just feel like an atention whore, who everyone just ignores."You are so not alone! I feel the same way. Especially with "friends" I have here in person. My close friends (2/3 dont have kids, 1/3 does just had her first) and when I ever have anything to say about life or being a SAHM/W, they look at me like I am half retarded. Like they are golden and that life is just peachy, and full of rainbows. I am just trying to be freakin honest! Get off your fucking 'perfect' high horse and get your nose out of your husbands ass!(thats what I feel like saying, lol)  It sucks, and sometimes I feel like I might be throwing my needy-ness in peoples faces but you know what we need attention just as much as the next person, sometimes even more! We spend all our energy on our kids and husbands and house, it would be nice if someone went out of their way to give a fuck about us for once, and to hear us talk and listen to our problems etc... Right?!  
  • MorganD
    Posts: 3,456Member
    It *feels* like you're alone, but we all get that way from time to time! Since I've had my kids, all of my "friends" bailed...except the ones that count. And my STBXH turned out to be a kid himself. Now I'm living with a great man, and the friends that matter are around and don't mind if I have to bring my kids, even when they don't have any. There are moments when I feel like I don't have anyone, that "Mommy" has taken over who I am, but it hasn't, and I'm still me. That's usually about the time that I throw the kids a granola bar, turn on the cartoons, and watch a movie or read a book.lol It'll get better, just keep your head up. As far as Scary Mommy...isn't that what we all come for? Someone to listen?
    *hugs*
    M
  • AnonUser32AnonUser32
    Posts: 823Guest
    I Feel alone often, my friends drink and do stupid stuff while I sit at home and take care of my family. I see someone I know maybe once a month. The rest is husbands fam. My fam doesn't live anywhere near me(1500mi away) and majority of my friends are still at the age where family isn't a concern. I understand completely. I was always the person whose there for everyone else but when I need even someone to talk to, I get brushed off. Its a lonely feeling. somedays it makes me wish I didn't get married or have kids.
    Without reason you have Rhythm and Rhyme the type of girl who knows how to have a good time... You take what you want except no for an answer... And I know first hand you're one hell of a dancer... So calling all cars and low and behold you're a real livewire with a heart of gold
  • BellaBefanaBellaBefana
    Posts: 8,146Member
    Everybody feels like that...i've been feeling alone and lonely lately.  If you come to the boards, nobody's going to ignore you...not here anyway...
    Bite me, cupcake!
  • episcopal
    Posts: 1,394Member
    Hit the chatroom in the evening.  @BellaBefana, it's a great time, isn't it?
  • BellaBefanaBellaBefana
    Posts: 8,146Member
    oh, yeah, @episcopal, especially when they're picking on me...

    Bite me, cupcake!
  • CaMommaWthluvx2CaMommaWthluvx2
    Posts: 37Member
    @BellaBefana - What do you mean they pick on you?! 

    @superscarymommy - I totally feel that way as far as the friend thing goes, and yeah I totally think that sometimes  " somedays it makes me wish I didn't get married or have kids."
  • FoulMouthedSailorFoulMouthedSailor
    Posts: 1,886Member
    Oh that's horseshit, @BellaBefana is fooling you, she's the one picking on people
    You show the lights that stop me turn to stone, You shine it when I'm alone. And so I tell myself that I'll be strong
    And dreaming when they're gone.
  • French_momFrench_mom
    Posts: 1,547Member
    @FoulMouthedSailor @BellaBefana makes me feel like playing referee.  But no joke, like @Episcopal said come see us in the chat room. We have fun, and we like to help people.  And we dont bite... Some of us like to purr  other are acting like baby while some other have gutter mind. But it is all fun.  Don't be shy please.  
    It is for me to know and you to dot dot dot.
  • BellaBefanaBellaBefana
    Posts: 8,146Member
    not true, @FoulMouthedSailor, aka sailor boy, aka baby cakes, or maybe even "cupcake." And @French_mom, you're just as bad... =)) =)) =)) =))

    @CaMommaWthluvx2:  they've been teasing a lot lately, all in good fun, though...and I can dish it out just as well as they can
    Bite me, cupcake!
  • CaMommaWthluvx2CaMommaWthluvx2
    Posts: 37Member
    You girls are funny :-D
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