Comments on: The Mother In Law Prenup http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/ A parenting website for imperfect parents Fri, 27 Mar 2015 04:33:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.1 By: ummmmhttp://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/comment-page-9/#comment-961161 Sat, 20 Dec 2014 03:19:09 +0000 http://www.scarymommy.com/?p=24568#comment-961161 My first mil was a nightmare, until I divorced him and he moved in with a lovely woman who makes me look like a queen. All of a sudden my parenting decisions were perfect.
My second mil is still a bff. She loves her son unconditionally, but knows he is not taking his meds and is therefore a bit off. No blame and we are both trying to help him.
I am currently watching my son sleep and while that is the sweetest time, I am sure that he will marry one day…and I am sure she will be awesome!

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By: Annehttp://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/comment-page-9/#comment-934833 Fri, 05 Dec 2014 19:11:20 +0000 http://www.scarymommy.com/?p=24568#comment-934833 I actually have a relatively good relationship with my MIL, we’ve even talked about going on vacation without the men (with my SIL) because the relationship is so good. But I lived in constant fear for years that when I found “the one” his Mom would hate me, or be totally dependent on him. My StepDad was a huge Mommy’s boy and it used to drive my Mom crazy.

Actually my MIL and my Mom get along really well and are very friendly with each other, whenever MIL is in town my Mom has her and her hubby over for dinner. That is great for me because I don’t feel like there’s a Mom contest.

I love living near my Mom and detest the area MIL lives in (too cold), but MIL wants to move back here (it’s where she used to live) anyway so it’s all good. I really think that a bad relationship with a MIL can spoil a romantic relationship because it puts the guy in a really difficult spot.

Oh and for the record my parents love my man too, so the family blended really easily. Yay!

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By: Kacihttp://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/comment-page-9/#comment-934647 Fri, 05 Dec 2014 17:01:36 +0000 http://www.scarymommy.com/?p=24568#comment-934647 Amen sister. I’m right there with ya. Mamas boys are the worst. My son will love me but always put his wife and children first.

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By: Kacihttp://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/comment-page-9/#comment-934646 Fri, 05 Dec 2014 16:58:59 +0000 http://www.scarymommy.com/?p=24568#comment-934646 This is insane. I live with a mamas boy and it’s terrible. He always put his mother before me and that is wrong. I have a son and he will grow up to respect his mother but always put his wife first bc that’s what real men and fathers do.

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By: janethttp://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/comment-page-9/#comment-934493 Fri, 05 Dec 2014 14:43:31 +0000 http://www.scarymommy.com/?p=24568#comment-934493 Jenny…I totally love your post, it is meant to entertain and to mot take it personal like other women did. I truly enjoy your writing, I have to say that I love my son(1 year) more than words can tell, and I don’t want him to ever leave. After my first son passed away, I didn’t think I could ever have kids but I was blessed with a son, I love him twice as much because it reminds me of his brother. Maybe one day I will be able to have an amazing DIL who’s going to love me and understand that my baby boy is my world, I know once she has kids she will see things in a different way. Values are important in our family, if you raise your children in a loving way they would never stray from you.

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By: janethttp://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/comment-page-9/#comment-934413 Fri, 05 Dec 2014 14:34:21 +0000 http://www.scarymommy.com/?p=24568#comment-934413 It is meant to entertain not to be taken literally true, sorry to hear you actually have to live it! But you have had to know your ex husband was a mama’s boy.

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By: janethttp://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/comment-page-8/#comment-934412 Fri, 05 Dec 2014 14:30:28 +0000 http://www.scarymommy.com/?p=24568#comment-934412 Get over it! She is a wonderful writer who loves to entertain us, don’t take it so personal. Judging from your post, maybe you should take your own advice and go to a therapist… lady you really need it!!!

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By: janethttp://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/comment-page-5/#comment-934405 Fri, 05 Dec 2014 14:17:42 +0000 http://www.scarymommy.com/?p=24568#comment-934405 I hear you! No way I’m letting my little one be taken away from me. After all those years of trying, I finally got my baby boy….I will keep him with me forever!

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