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		<title>By: Jen</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-142913</link>
		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 12:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your kid is probably gonna run outta the house the minute he turns 18 cuz if this. I hope its a joke and you let him live his own life when hes older.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your kid is probably gonna run outta the house the minute he turns 18 cuz if this. I hope its a joke and you let him live his own life when hes older.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-142269</link>
		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 14:26:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If my husbands biological mom ever came up to me and wanted me to sign this....even in jest, I&#039;d spit in her face. Fucking HATE that woman, just the sound of her voice makes me want to punch old people,puppies, kittens, and infants all in one!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If my husbands biological mom ever came up to me and wanted me to sign this&#8230;.even in jest, I&#8217;d spit in her face. Fucking HATE that woman, just the sound of her voice makes me want to punch old people,puppies, kittens, and infants all in one!</p>
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		<title>By: Destinee</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-142258</link>
		<dc:creator>Destinee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 14:13:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[...You ladies have just made me very happy I&#039;m not married. I have two boys, though, so now I&#039;m totally dreading their marriages, should they get married (which, BTW, hadn&#039;t even crossed my mind until I read this! Gah!)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;You ladies have just made me very happy I&#8217;m not married. I have two boys, though, so now I&#8217;m totally dreading their marriages, should they get married (which, BTW, hadn&#8217;t even crossed my mind until I read this! Gah!)</p>
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		<title>By: Priscilla</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-130192</link>
		<dc:creator>Priscilla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Mar 2013 14:33:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[According to my &#039;soon to be mother in law&#039; I&#039;m white-trash, filth, my daughter from a previous relationship is an &#039;ugly little monster&#039; She attacked me from behind, attempted to &#039;kill&#039; her self (when in reality is was all an act) Went as far as to text my own mother telling her we&#039;re waiting for her to die to cash in. She thinks the world owes her something, and I should apoligize to her. (I&#039;m sorry, for what?)  The list goes on and on! Some would ask why I&#039;d stick around, well I love my guy. I love him enough to have tolerated this for almost two years. Thankfully, the contact between them is almost non-existant but here is the kicker, I work with her.(She is the one who got us together, two months after, I turned into a white-trash whore) I often ask myself, what in the world did I do to land her for a mother in-law, but at the end of the day I can only pray I&#039;m nothing like her when the roles are reversed. To those ladies who have a good mother in law (or one who is not THAT crazy) appreciate her, because trust me it could be worse.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>According to my &#8216;soon to be mother in law&#8217; I&#8217;m white-trash, filth, my daughter from a previous relationship is an &#8216;ugly little monster&#8217; She attacked me from behind, attempted to &#8216;kill&#8217; her self (when in reality is was all an act) Went as far as to text my own mother telling her we&#8217;re waiting for her to die to cash in. She thinks the world owes her something, and I should apoligize to her. (I&#8217;m sorry, for what?)  The list goes on and on! Some would ask why I&#8217;d stick around, well I love my guy. I love him enough to have tolerated this for almost two years. Thankfully, the contact between them is almost non-existant but here is the kicker, I work with her.(She is the one who got us together, two months after, I turned into a white-trash whore) I often ask myself, what in the world did I do to land her for a mother in-law, but at the end of the day I can only pray I&#8217;m nothing like her when the roles are reversed. To those ladies who have a good mother in law (or one who is not THAT crazy) appreciate her, because trust me it could be worse.</p>
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		<title>By: Tanis</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-127912</link>
		<dc:creator>Tanis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2013 02:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What a beautiful post! I bet your MIL adores you!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a beautiful post! I bet your MIL adores you!!</p>
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		<title>By: Jeannette</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-127831</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeannette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2013 14:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I loved these suggestions when I first saw them a few months ago... so I used them to help wish my Mother in Law a happy birthday. I hope I gave her the recognition she&#039;s been too kind to ask for all along.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved these suggestions when I first saw them a few months ago&#8230; so I used them to help wish my Mother in Law a happy birthday. I hope I gave her the recognition she&#8217;s been too kind to ask for all along.</p>
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		<title>By: Allison</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-125546</link>
		<dc:creator>Allison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 17:26:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have little sympathy for women who marry men who have such a bizarre relationship with their mothers.  If you didn&#039;t know, you didn&#039;t do your research.  If you did know and married him anyway, you&#039;re probably crazier than his mother.  Not to say men with crazy mothers aren&#039;t worthy of a relationship, but if they can&#039;t/won&#039;t see her for what she is...RUN!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have little sympathy for women who marry men who have such a bizarre relationship with their mothers.  If you didn&#8217;t know, you didn&#8217;t do your research.  If you did know and married him anyway, you&#8217;re probably crazier than his mother.  Not to say men with crazy mothers aren&#8217;t worthy of a relationship, but if they can&#8217;t/won&#8217;t see her for what she is&#8230;RUN!</p>
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		<title>By: Kina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 17:21:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m the MIL. My DIL has hated me FOREVER. It breaks my heart. I wish I had a good relationship with her, but everything I do is wrong, ever since she started seeing my son when he was 13. They have been together since, she randomly decides that she will no longer speak to me, tells my daughter that she sometimes can&#039;t stand her because &quot;you remind me of your mother&quot; and NEVER ever tells me why or try to talk to me about it.

She hates my sense of humor. If I try to treat her like one of my kids, I&#039;m awful, if I try to treat her like a friend, I&#039;m awful and if I ignore her I&#039;m awful.

I don&#039;t get involved in her relationship with my son, even though she tried to sabotage his college career because she felt threatened (she refused to go to college at the time, although she&#039;s now decided to go and is on the Dean&#039;s list) but because he did and persevered, she is able to be a stay at home mom for their kids, well, until she decided to go to school, but she doesn&#039;t have to work.

She tells my son that I was a horrible mother to him and criticizes me for not going to their place, but when I go, she opens the door, looks at me and says &quot;oh.&quot; turns around and goes to get him.

He was a mama&#039;s boy, which is now what she says to him when they fight as an insult, but he is a wonderful husband as a consequence.

I wish I knew how to change this, but it&#039;s very difficult to speak to a wall who doesn&#039;t respond to you.

My only consolation is that THEY have a son, as well. That&#039;ll show her.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m the MIL. My DIL has hated me FOREVER. It breaks my heart. I wish I had a good relationship with her, but everything I do is wrong, ever since she started seeing my son when he was 13. They have been together since, she randomly decides that she will no longer speak to me, tells my daughter that she sometimes can&#8217;t stand her because &#8220;you remind me of your mother&#8221; and NEVER ever tells me why or try to talk to me about it.</p>
<p>She hates my sense of humor. If I try to treat her like one of my kids, I&#8217;m awful, if I try to treat her like a friend, I&#8217;m awful and if I ignore her I&#8217;m awful.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t get involved in her relationship with my son, even though she tried to sabotage his college career because she felt threatened (she refused to go to college at the time, although she&#8217;s now decided to go and is on the Dean&#8217;s list) but because he did and persevered, she is able to be a stay at home mom for their kids, well, until she decided to go to school, but she doesn&#8217;t have to work.</p>
<p>She tells my son that I was a horrible mother to him and criticizes me for not going to their place, but when I go, she opens the door, looks at me and says &#8220;oh.&#8221; turns around and goes to get him.</p>
<p>He was a mama&#8217;s boy, which is now what she says to him when they fight as an insult, but he is a wonderful husband as a consequence.</p>
<p>I wish I knew how to change this, but it&#8217;s very difficult to speak to a wall who doesn&#8217;t respond to you.</p>
<p>My only consolation is that THEY have a son, as well. That&#8217;ll show her.</p>
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		<title>By: shama-mama</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-123329</link>
		<dc:creator>shama-mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2013 21:29:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yay, i have 3 daughters.  Will never have to deal with a wife. I never realized how sadit is that a beautiful relationship of husband and wife breaks the relation of mother and son.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay, i have 3 daughters.  Will never have to deal with a wife. I never realized how sadit is that a beautiful relationship of husband and wife breaks the relation of mother and son.</p>
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		<title>By: heathermccollam</title>
		<link>http://www.scarymommy.com/the-mother-in-law-prenup/#comment-122249</link>
		<dc:creator>heathermccollam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 22:44:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;so when I pray, I pray I never grow to be that way&quot; (2Pac). You keep your chin up, beautiful. Don&#039;t let anyone&#039;s poor judgement and hurt make you feel bad(ly)? about yourself. You know the facts/truth. You know who and what you are &amp; who and what you are not, even if no one else does. Denial of truth does nothing to change it so don&#039;t let it change your loving soul. Stay strong &amp; good. Have a little faith.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;so when I pray, I pray I never grow to be that way&#8221; (2Pac). You keep your chin up, beautiful. Don&#8217;t let anyone&#8217;s poor judgement and hurt make you feel bad(ly)? about yourself. You know the facts/truth. You know who and what you are &amp; who and what you are not, even if no one else does. Denial of truth does nothing to change it so don&#8217;t let it change your loving soul. Stay strong &amp; good. Have a little faith.</p>
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