Caila Smith is a quirky, 20-somethin’-year-old mom to two sets of twins and a daughter in heaven. Though she considers herself an advocate for parents in all walks of life, her passion is drawn toward other bereaved mothers. (But the hot-mess, coffee-slurpin’, drowning-in-life moms are her people too.) She loves being a staff writer with Scary Mommy, hates the fact that her house doesn’t clean itself, writes on her blog and you can follow her on Facebook, and Pinterest.