“My h doesn't have to go to work at regular hours. He can work from home, or go in & come back at different times every day. I never know in advance if he's going to be here or not. I ABSOLUTELY HATE THIS!!!”
SO and I each have our own daughters out of wedlock. While being a single mom hurt and embarrassed me I believe it will be the key to our happy marriage. He knows I can and will do it all myself if I’m not treated correctly. & I won’t stay for the kids.
I send my kid to catholic school. I’m not even religious. I’d go as far to say I’m anti religion. I need her to have the good education I didn’t get. Please tell me I’m making the right choice. Don’t resent me DD. I struggled my whole life.
I don’t think there is a damn thing I can do to make him love me. I’ve tried it all. The world is his oyster and he will never be faithful to anyone. Ever. Now I have to just accept and roll with the heartbreak.
I feel ashamed to admit this but, if I'd known mental illness runs in DH's family, I would NEVER have married him. As it was, his family kept it hidden and even HE didn't know until after we were already married w/kids, and it struck him.
My husband told me he never wants to have sex again. It makes me feel like a hideous beast. We have been married 16 years. In the last 5 we have had sex less than 5 times. He doesn't understand why i am upset. He is not cheating, just has no libido.
I really want to try to be positive about our situation because I'm so afraid of what could happen but it's so fricken hard. Especially being home alone with the kids all the time. I don't want them to pick up that there's something wrong.
I didn't get a birthday present, Christmas present, or Valentine's Day present. But he expected a big to-do for his birthday. Really? This is why I had an affair. I got attention and love and gave it back. And I'd do it again if he came back.
Havent told dh exactly what is going on in the pregnancy cuz he gets overwhelmed easily. Just overhead him telling a friend im a big baby and its not that big of a deal. Maybe its time to clue him in to this high risk situation.
After years of wanting in, I finally joined the “mom club” only to feel like I have no place here because my baby sleeps through the night, immediately took to breastfeeding, and is pretty happy. Love my baby, still feel alone when it comes to adults.
Lost 18 babies in the last 7 yrs, trying to give our ds a sibling. All “chromosomal abnormalities “. Gave up & moved out of the city. Got preg, had ds who’s 2 1/2 now, then again w: dd 4 mo. 9 yr old is miserable & hates life w/ ds & dd. I can’t win!
Husband is all excited that his father just gifted him $15,000 ams he wants to put it in. Savings. He has no idea I have $8,000 credit card debt that we could finally get rid of. Tell him and have him angry or just keep paying minimum payments forever?
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