The most important criteria for things w/DH is reliability - it may not have all the high performance bells and whistles but, what it does do, it does well. It's dependable, and a known quantity. I think that's also why he married and is happy w/me.
SO and I each have our own daughters out of wedlock. While being a single mom hurt and embarrassed me I believe it will be the key to our happy marriage. He knows I can and will do it all myself if I’m not treated correctly. & I won’t stay for the kids.
I send my kid to catholic school. I’m not even religious. I’d go as far to say I’m anti religion. I need her to have the good education I didn’t get. Please tell me I’m making the right choice. Don’t resent me DD. I struggled my whole life.
I don’t think there is a damn thing I can do to make him love me. I’ve tried it all. The world is his oyster and he will never be faithful to anyone. Ever. Now I have to just accept and roll with the heartbreak.
I feel ashamed to admit this but, if I'd known mental illness runs in DH's family, I would NEVER have married him. As it was, his family kept it hidden and even HE didn't know until after we were already married w/kids, and it struck him.
My husband told me he never wants to have sex again. It makes me feel like a hideous beast. We have been married 16 years. In the last 5 we have had sex less than 5 times. He doesn't understand why i am upset. He is not cheating, just has no libido.
I really want to try to be positive about our situation because I'm so afraid of what could happen but it's so fricken hard. Especially being home alone with the kids all the time. I don't want them to pick up that there's something wrong.
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