Haven't slept in the same bed as DH for 2 years since DD 2.5 still doesn't STTN. I know its hurting our marriage and it makes me feel terrible. But the idea of leaving my sweet girl alone all night makes me feel terrible too. I hate this.
My heart aches to go back to when EA & first started. It was so fun, flirty, & sexy & he was my best friend. Now I’m in love w/ him. I haven’t told him but I’m sure he can tell & I know he doesn’t love me. Now we barely talk and I miss him constantly.
I always get a pit in my stomach and know when H and I are going to have a bad day. I can’t explain it. Everything will be fine between us then suddenly this feeling comes and things go to shit & we fight Shortly after. Does this happen to anyone else?
DH died young. Have no worries & am lucky in that regard. Could go or do anything but don't want to do it alone. And yes I was a wife who sometimes fantasized about being single. This is a couples world & you only realize this after you no long fit.
My kids get all of my death benefits & H gets none. I've heard too many horror stories about kids getting screwed over. If H wants to move on with someone else he can do it on his dime. My kids' money is not getting spent on another woman. Fuck that.
I’m going through a divorce. I have a few people I share things with, but I always feel like I can only tell them bits and pieces or they’ll get annoyed if I talk about it all the time. I wish I had someone I could tell everything to all the time.
H likely to retire early in 3-5 years. By then, I'll be financially independent from him again. When that happens, whether he's free or not, my life will be 100% my way or I will move on without him. Not going to be a domestic slave to a retired man.
My hair started thinning about 10+ years ago. Medically all was/is ok. My part got so wide I just couldn't take it and just brought a rocking wig and went home and shaved my thin hair all off. Love it! 5 years and never looked back. Wigs are awesome!
Looking forward to our separation. Set open rules to see others & at some pt I'll be looking for company. Love dh but living together this way doesn't work & he ruined our sex life w/his anxieties. Can't wait to just enjoy myself again w/o all the bs.
I want a divorce for no other reason than I'm tired of being married. DH hasn't done anything wrong & we love each other. I'm just tired of all the work it takes to maintain such a good relationship. Marriage is exhausting.
I don't dream of ways I'd kill someone if he raped my daughter - I dream of ways to keep him ALIVE so I could draw things out and make his eventual death as slow and agonizing as possible. I figure I could make him last at least a week - maybe a month!
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