5 Things Kids Have Got Totally Wrong – Scary Mommy

5 Things Kids Have Got Totally Wrong

Kids are gullible. And stupid. And loud. And annoying. And lazy. And way too energetic.

Sorry, lost my train of thought there for a second.

The point is that kids will believe anything. Believe me, I know; I’ve tested this. Extensively. And I will continue to test it, both to verify my findings like a proper scientist and because lying to children is so damn entertaining!

At least for awhile. The problem arises later, if they don’t eventually start seeing through your exaggerations and omissions and flat-out untruths. Because if your kids enter adulthood still believing some of the stuff they learned as youngsters?

They’re going to be in for a rude awakening. Here’s a quick sampling of some of the notions of which they’ll eventually need to be disabused.

Five Problematic Childhood Misconceptions

1. Santa Claus/the Easter Bunny/the Tooth Fairy/the Boogeyman/Scientology is real. Most kids figure this one out pretty early, which is good news in the long run. Is it a loss of innocence? Maybe, if you believe children are ever innocent to begin with, which I sure as hell don’t. My kid stares at me while pooping his pants. That’s cold-blooded.

2. Museums are fun! Children’s museums are fun. But that’s only because they aren’t actually museums! Real talk? They’re indoor playgrounds. Everything is interactive and hands-on and touchable and exciting. The kids are in for a rude awakening the first time they visit an actual museum and realize that if you go anywhere NEAR the Mona Lisa – never mind even act like maybe you’re going to consider possibly touching it – you will GET TACKLED and then GO TO JAIL.

3. Life is fair. Awwwww. Life is only fair if you’re a white male. And even then it’s not actually fair, it’s totally rigged, and if you are a white male and you think it’s fair, you are the fucking problem. So, to recap, depending on your demographics, life is either painfully unfair or you’re the reason it’s painfully unfair. Enjoy your next 75+ years, kids!

4. Men wear the pants. My wife didn’t make me type this. I mean, not directly. I just knew I had to, so I did. She doesn’t actually need to tell me to do anything. After nearly eight years of marriage, I’ve internalized it. You will too.

5. In the future, we’ll all have flying cars. I’m pretty sure every generation since my great-grandfather’s has believed this bullshit. It’s never going to happen, guys. We don’t even have those astronaut pills that contain entire meals. All we have are Lays’ Southern Biscuits and Gravy Potato Chips. And if that’s the future, I don’t want to go to there. If anything, in the future we’ll all be living on ships. At least those of us who survive when the world drowns will.

But there is one major misconception we should probably make them hang onto:

Adults know what they’re doing. Everyone reading this knows that becoming an adult is not some kind of line you cross or designation you earn, it’s just an increasingly higher number of birthdays and a steady collection of bills and soul-crushing responsibilities. We are all faking it.

So be careful. This is one misconception our kids need to believe for as long as possible, or the whole damn jig will be up and we’ll never get them out of our basements. And that’s no good. I’m planning to build a bar down there!