I spent a half hour in the Hallmark store the other day looking for the perfect card to send to a new mommy friend. Much to my dismay, I couldn’t exactly what I was looking for.
In case you’ve ever encountered the same problem, I made a few to share…
Might as well let new moms know what they’re in store for, right?
Well, I certainly think so.
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Much more realistic. I think from now on though, I’m just skipping the card and sending wine.
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Hahahaha! I like the ass wiping one myself.
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My favorite, too. :)
This is perfect. I’m going to a baby shower this weekend and encountered the same problem in the card aisle. Didn’t help that I was standing there with two cranky, fighting kids.
hahaha- real life is so much better then fiction Allison :)
Ha ha … I love every last one of them! Especially “boys are discusting” … so very true.
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As a mother of 2 boys, I completely agree with “Boys are disgusting, Best Wishes with Yours!” WHAT is their obsession with bodily noises & functions; creepy critters; and mud puddles. I’m fully convinced those obsessions are part of their Y-Chromosome! (But I wouldn’t trade my demon boys for anything on earth)
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I would 100% honestly buy those. Someone would make a killing on those things.
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Awesome, my favorite is the behind wiping.
Worse mommy moment ever, major ummmmm ‘explosion’ outside a cafe in San Francisco. Ran out of those nifty wipes. Had to use my sweat shirt and the night gown I had packed in my suite case. I still miss that sweat shirt and I washed the night gown and gave it to my sister-in-law because I am just mean that way at times.
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LOL that’s hilarious! You gave it to your SIL. I’d give it to my MIL.
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My husband would have fits if I gave to MIL. The fact that my SIL was the recipient was a secret until I just blabbed it on here. loll
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Love this. I’m going to a baby shower this Sunday. I think this might be to realistic for a first time Mom. I will be sharing them with the others. Thanks for a good laugh.
You are a genius!!!!
These are right on. Hallmark does have a card line called Edge of Motherhood that would fall in line with these.
I am loving the daughter one but I think my favorite is the never peeing alone again…I’m loving that one too..
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LOL can we download these? They are hilarious!! No joke.
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Yes, absolutely!!
: ) These just about sum it up perfectly, don’t they?
Motherhood bliss!
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Get thee to a cafepress account immediately and make these cards. And then retire on your riches.
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Ok where are these from??? I’d buy them
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I spent WAY too much time making them. :)
Boys ARE disgusting. And violent. I’m not sure what is up with that.
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You should print these on zazzle. I’d buy them.
Me too!!!!!!! What about the cards for second time parents?!
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Oh YES!
Ohmygoodness, I so needed that laugh!
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Amen, sister!
I think I would have to think twice about a so-called friend who gave me a card like this. Birth is beautiful and should be celebrated.
My births weren’t particularly beautiful, but the kids sure are. This is celebrating them! Just with some silliness and reality and much-needed “Laugh, Mommy!” attitude.
The juxtaposition of the pictures with the words is perfect.
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Do we need to be ompletely serious andboring all the time. I wld have laughed hard if given one of these. Know that all my girlfriends wld too.
Love them scary mom, pls approach hallmark right now!!!
I was actually kind of mad at all of my friends for not telling me about this side of being a mother. I appreciate the honesty.
Jennifer recently posted..Share Your Awesome, From Cow to Wow
It’s called having a sense of humor. I figure you would have one if you read anything from this site before.
HAHAHAHAHAH You forgot:
Congratulations on the birth of your child!
Remember that thing you did to get here? You’re never doing it again.
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Ohhhhhh, good one!!!!
Dude, 5 months. You still look pregnant for about 5 months.
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Um, or four years.
Or let’s see… 1.. 2… 7. Seven years. Or if you talk to my mother? 40.
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Love these! I am rather font obsessed. What font did you use on “never peeing alone again”?
As am I. It’s called Ballpark. E-mail me if you want me to send it to you.
These are hilarious – the sad secret nobody wants to share with an enthusiastic new parent.
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LMAO. Seriously. I am. The boy one…gah. I never knew they got so gross so young. But yet, they do.
I love these! I would totally give these to friends, and then remind them that I have no kids, so I’ll be flouncing off to my clean house to enjoy my disposable income. ;) I mock because I love.
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*I* sound lonely? I didn’t just spend god knows how long trolling the comments. You sound like an angry, bitter person. Learn to take a fucking joke.
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“congratulations on never peeing alone again” love it so true!
I can think of some for people who are about my age having babies, too.
I’m 23 and I think some people my age are convinced that they’re already running out of time and must have all the babies they can have STAT.
What about? “Congratulations on giving birth to that thing you thought was going to make you “cool.” The rest of us are going to that party we were telling you about..”
Disclaimer: I’m not hating on young mothers. I respect that some out there are perfectly content given the circumstances. I’m hating on the friends of mine who *literally* thought baby-birthing would make others jealous. ;)
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I remember when my friends in their early 20′s did that! You are so right.
Anne recently posted..Handmade Coastal Christmas – Ornaments
What I wouldn’t give to be able to pee alone! LOL! Either my kid or my dog opens the door…lol! You should totally market these! Too funny!
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I think some commenters are missing the point entirely. These are hilarious. Should be made into spit up towels, so you can be reminded how lucky you are 456719324 times a day.
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Love these! Children are the best thing ever but every woman deserves fair warning. ;)
Kids are a life changer. That is a fact. Pretending it’s all sweet and tidy doesn’t do anyone a favor. Kids, can be so darned horrid at times. And for some inexplicable reason we love them more than life itself.
If we can’t have a sense of humor about it, we’re going to need one of those cadillac insurance policies to pay for all the therapy.
Amen.
Right on!
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LOL I love the “boys are gross” one. Why yes, yes they are!
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I need these cards! Pronto!!! Awesome!!!!!!
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I would send these to every new mother I know.
Hell, I’d send them to strangers!
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How about Congratulations, your boobs will never look the same!
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Ohhh, I love that one. I’m on it!
I saw a great card the other day on someecards.com. Congratulations…you’re 19 kids away from your own reality show!
These are so true – I love them! I do wish it only took 2 months to not look pregnant any more though!
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Awesome!
I even love your “tag” :)
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My brother gave me a card when my daughter was born in Sept that I thought was priceless. It said “Hows your va-jayjay – Enough about you tell me about your beautiful new baby”
Love it that’s great. My uncle asked me if my dd felt as good coming out as going in!!!
I LOVE the ‘you’ll never go to the bathroom alone again’ example. It is so true! I think that is why my 19 month old is already trying to use the potty all on his own-he sees mommy do it so much he already knows what to do!
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You are discusting and (obviously) such a sad person that you think that it is the best use of your time insulting others. So sad.
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Not meant for you Jill! I love everything you write!
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Love the bathroom card! It is uncanny how the moment I have to use the restroom my kids need me or want to sir on my lap. How could this be?!?
I hear you… I have been a mother 8 years now. No sleep, wiping ass, no peeing alone and not being able to be sick all sound too familiar. Funny cards…
Haha, these are awesome. And all so very true.
Can’t. stop. laughing.
Can I buy these in a set?
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Oh my gosh! Those are perfect :) Except, 2 months? Hello! My youngest is 7 and I’m still not…. oh well, never mind. I make a good cushion for him ;-)
And boys are totally disgusting and girls (teenage!) are a nightmare. Thank goodness for adult beverages.
You need to sell these cards to Hallmark or start your own greeting card business. If you haven’t already :)
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Shut the FRONT door. Those are for real the best cards I have seen ever. Too cute and funny! I want one!
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Ha! I laughed so hard tears ran down my leg.
BRILLIANT
I wish that last card wasn’t so, so true.
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This is awesome! My friend just had a baby so I emailed her one. I’m sure she’ll appreciate my sick sense of humor!
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Actually in the U.S., it is pronounced Rah-Gee-nah, not Rah, Gy-nah. but close enough!
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“You will be forced to use nasty public bathrooms because your newly potty trained child likes to sample strange toilets,”
Because boys are gross.
lol, why do boys do that?
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Ha! All so true! Very timely . . . I’ll take them all.
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Ha, looks great! Mazol on the new add :)
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Hil-arious! The receiver might not appreciate it right away, but a few months into motherhood, she will grateful for your honesty.
I hope you sent these on to Hallmark.
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I love “Boys are disgusting”. Cause they really are.
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Christ, boys are disgusting.
Genius, Jill.
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I wish they had these in the stores. LOL! So fitting! Thanks for making me laugh!
Hilarious! I would definately buy these! My fav : my vagina hurts thinking oF you! Ahahahaha!
Oh my goodness, I am in stitches… Jill, I am SO forwarding this to friends!
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Hallmark needs these RIGHT NOW. Awesome stuff, Jill!
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Both neighbours are expecting a child! Please tell me I can download these! Or at least order them? They are hilarious!
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Be my guest!
These are awesome! I would have died laughing if I got these when I had my son. With how quickly I would cry after giving birth, a good laugh would have been perfect.
It’s a good job you didn’t see these when you had your son then, or he would have gone up for adoption after your death. Possibly being adopted by lesbians. LESBIANS.
OMG!! Love these. You should really at least open a web store so we can buy these. I am sure you can make up some really good cards for the ex! These are cute and hysterical…especially My vagina hurts… still laughing!
Hilarious!!
jill these cards are amazing. I am so proud of you. love and miss you. jill s.
This post had me laughing until there were tears streaming down my face. Clever! :)
-MM
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OMG- I was pee-pee laughing and crying all at the same time!!
Those are exactly what a new mom needs about a month after the big day when you really need a good laugh (and cry) about what you’ve got yourself into!
LOVE THEM- you are too funny!
My vagina hurts just reading those cards.
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These are fantastic!!!!!!!!
I have never seen better cards. SELL THESE!
You would make a killing with these. Way more money than blogging!
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personally, my favorite is the reminder of the “fourth trimester” still looking pregnant time. one of the most beautiful aspects of motherhoood :)
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I’m a little sad to see how many women find these amusing. Hardly a respectable card to send regarding such a beautiful event.
These are not only amusing, they are REAL. I dont know anyone who lives in the perfect world of “nothing ever was fucked up with MY experience in childbirth or mothering”. These are what REALLY happens and if we DONT laugh about it, we will all go CRAZY! Thanks you scandalous blogging maniac (scary mommy) for making MY day:)
It’s called humor…
These are fantastic! Would love to get some for my pregnant friends :)
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These are priceless. I think the ass wiping one is my favourite too! :)
LOVELOVELOVE. I showed my husband and we had a great laugh. Also once you have a little one, there goes showering alone until they are 6 or 7.
I have to clarify the shower statement. My youngest would strip off her clothes and come running to the bathroom whenever she would hear the shower running. So I would end up in the shower with a toddler/ preschooler for the longest time I cherish my alone time in the shower.
I think I need my card to be ammended that a year later uou still look pregnant!
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These are great!
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Love it. I think you need a c-section one.
“Congratulations! Sorry about that emergency surgery. Don’t worry–the scar fades. Sort of.”
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Hilarious! I love the irony of the happy pictures and font with the messages.
Recovering Supermom recently posted..My Defining Moment
LOL!! I agree. Why lie to them. Being mommy somtimes sucks…it’s not all gumdrops and roses people!! We might as well be honest and stop setting the newbies up for failure and dissapointment :)
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Childfree people (like me) will mistake these cards for advertisements to not have kids. That’s how I got here: I followed the link posted from a childfree group on FB. That’s exactly how they’re interpreting them lol. Personally, I think there’s no better statement about the end result of having kids than “the stork is a bird of war” on youtube.
Childfree people? You guys have a formal name now? I preferred it when we just called you whores and sluts.
Nothing like getting real on ‘em!!
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I sent one of these to my friend via email, she had a baby on 11/8. She said ‘my vagina hurts more reading your card’
lol. Thanks Scary Mommy!
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lol. I wrote that wrong. she said her vagina hurts more after reading the card. but I will have to remind her about reading things with her vagina!
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Ha ha! That’s hilarious!! I love it!! Baha!! “You’re going to look pregnant for two more months!!” So true! bx
Awesome! Everyone around me seems to be having babies, I’ll send them to your site for the new cards. Spectacular!
I’m a dork, don’t follow the website on my post above, LMAO, I put our names in the wrong order. It’s definitely a Monday!
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I wish I’d seen these before having babies myself. Although then I might not have had babies. I guess I take that back. ;-P
And the wiping. OMG, the wiping.
Love, love, love it!!! If you had only included one that said something along the lines of…”oh what a beautiful little baby girl…call me when she hits puberty..I know a good priest who performs a fantastic exorcism!!!
If only these WERE sold in stores…
Greeting cards are too boring – they need an overhaul like these.
Hilarious!
OMG, you HAVE to make the printables… Can’t stop laughing.
I’m going to print a few of these out and hide em in the wife’s hospital bag. Everyone likes cards, right?
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hahaha! awesome. It’s sad but true, all of it :-)
So… when if you new line of “tell it like it is” greeting cards coming out? ;-)
Pure genius. I need one of each, please.
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Love the never peeing alone. Still don’t understand why they close the door for themselves and feel it is time to chat when I am sitting there.
Fantastic. I would suggest one like, “Congrats on your new baby. Don’t throw it out the window!” But I am kinda dark like that.
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Ummm these were so ridiculously funny I laughed out loud. Which isn’t a good thing because it’s 12:30 am Vegas time and everyone is sleeping including Matilda thank God-
My Favorite: Your going to look pregnant for two more months enjoy your baby. – Yea no one told me that part LOL
Thanks for the huge laugh
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Wait…how did you manage the Hallmark store with kids?! Mine chase each other around the aisles and pull out the cards with animals on them and refile them incorrectly. It’s all I can do to grab a card and pay for it while listening to them whine about why I’m not buying them anything.
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I love these! You had me laughing. My favorite is the peeing alone one. You have no idea how much I miss peeing alone, and my youngest is almost 5… They are all great though.
I love these cards. They are brutal, but honest. They should be given out, somehow, before conception.
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If you ever want to create and send these cards to someone – let me know. I’ll hook you up with a free SendOutCards account so you can put a smile on 10 new mamas faces :)
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I really like them all but there is no card that could justify motherhood and all of the new experiences and surprises. ; )
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