Every afternoon when my kids come home from school, they come barreling up the stairs, unzip their backpacks, pull out their half eaten lunches, and thrust their classroom folders in my general direction at precisely the same time.
It’s a pivotal moment. The contents of the dreaded classroom folder will dictate how the rest of my day and evening is going to go. In other words, there is a direct correlation between the cornucopia of shit that comes out of there and the amount of stress I’m going to have to endure.
But now that my oldest is in fifth grade, I’ve had a few years to figure out a sorting system that’s really made a difference. Believe me the last thing you want do is just open up the folder and go through it willy-nilly. That’s what the dumb moms do.
Instead be smart and follow these twelve easy steps for staying sane while sorting through your elementary student’s classroom folder. Then I promise you’ll be A-okay:
STEP 1: Open up the folder(s).
STEP 2: Calculate the total number of folders you must sort through.
Hint: This should equal the total number of elementary aged
kids you have.
Bonus Tip 1: If you have fewer folders than elementary aged
kids in your household immediately scold your child for forgetting
Bonus Tip 2: If you have more folders than elementary aged
kids in your household immediately ask your child why the fuck he
brought Tommy’s folder home (again!)
STEP 3: Calculate your “Friendly Folder Fraction” by taking the number from Step 2 and using it as your denominator. Place the numerator 1 above it. Don’t let the basic math scare you off. It’s a total cinch.
Example 1: Jill has 2 folders to sort through. Therefore
Jill’s Friendly Folder Fraction is 1/2.
STEP 4: Randomly throw out pages. This is called leveling the playing field. Why should those of us with multiple kids do more work?
Example 1: Jill throws out <1/2> of the pages contained in
each folder. In other words, Jill throws out every other page. I mean
recycles. Jill RECYCLES every other page.
Bonus Tip 1: Get your kids involved and make it a fun family activity.
STEP 5: Survey what remains. If you have more than one kid in your household immediately recycle any PTA or School Club related information. There will never be time. Don’t kid yourself.
Note: If you only have 1 kid in your household then the PTA
is counting on you. And I hear they’re looking for a President.
Put all corrected homework and art projects in one pile. When nobody is looking quickly toss it in to the recycling bin. That’s officially in the past now.
STEP 6: Put all corrected homework and art projects in one pile. When nobody is looking quickly toss it in to the recycling bin. That’s officially in the past now.
STEP 7: Autograph the hell out of the Reading Log.
Bonus Tip 1: Sign it all at once for the entire week. True, your child
hasn’t had a chance to read yet, but don’t get mired down in the
details. Besides, if you can’t trust your kid who can you trust?
STEP 8: Collect any new assignments. Hand them to your child. It’s now his/her problem. Not yours.
STEP 9: Quickly review the remaining documents to see if anything requires a signature. Don’t read it. Just sign it. It’s called a Permission Slip. That’s because you have permission to sign it.
STEP 10: Look for any new health announcements. You’re looking for the word E-B-O-L-A. If you don’t see that word, you’re good, discard the form. If you do see that word, sorry, I can’t help you. The CDC can though. Speed dial them at 1-800-CDC-INFO.
STEP 11: You’re almost home free. The only thing that should be left in the school folder is the Picture Day Order Form.It’s only sent twice per year – once for actual Picture Day and once for My Kid Looks like a Constipated Goldfish Day (aka Retake Day). Don’t agonize over which package to buy. Remember, the answer is always C. Pick C. Write your check. Seal your envelope. Never mind the taste of adhesive in your mouth. Now it’s time to…
STEP 12: Pour yourself a glass of wine and toast to your ingenuity!
Congratulations, you’ve just mastered your biggest life hack to date.
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