Instagrammer claps back after asked how she landed her husband
The internet can be a bad, bad place. So bad in fact, that someone once slid into photographer Jenna Kutcher’s Instagram DMs and asked her how she nabbed such a good looking husband. *Cue head exploding.* Kutcher handled the negativity perfectly, though, and her response is a master class in positivity and self-love.
Kutcher took to Instagram to share all her thoughts on the mean comment she received about her relationship. “Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch,” she began. “I’ll be honest that I was taken aback.”
Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch. I’ll be honest that I was taken aback. ✨ Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him. 🙋🏼 This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match. 🙌🏻 So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!) ✨ I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size. Photo by: @mrslindseyroman
The photographer went on to explain that she already has a lot of self-esteem issues when it comes to being married to her husband.
“Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself,” she wrote. “Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him.”
Thankfully, Kutcher’s husband makes her feel damn good about herself — and AMEN to that.
“This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match,” she said.
She finished off by saying that, yes, she doesn’t look like a stick thin barbie (because, I mean, who even does?) and that really, really doesn’t matter.
“My thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that,” Kutcher wrote. “I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you.”
Yes, yes, YES to all that. So much applause to this couple who clearly have a beautiful, healthy relationship. Seriously – just look at them together.
THE REALITY OF GOING VIRAL: We’ve spent the last few days gawking at the fact that society believes that seeing two people (who happen to have different body types) in love is newsworthy, and yet we are embracing it whole heartedly because it means that we get to share our message with YOU, with the world. 〜 We are not our bodies. I am not defined by titles like “curvy” or plus size, Drew is not defined by “Mr. Six Pack.” At the end of the day, we are the girl and the guy who fell in love and started dating in college after @kickingitwithkutch lost a bet that led to a first kiss – the rest is history. 〜 Our story is has held ups and down, light and loss and we’ve chosen to show up and turn the mess into our message. Because we believe the world is hungry for REAL and going viral has proven that. 〜 Here we are: Jenna and Drew, a small town couple who are as normal as they come and more in love today than the day they said “I do.” You might have met us because of our bodies but I pray you fall in love with our hearts and souls and stick around awhile. Will you? 〜 Photo by: @mrslindseyroman
Find the one you wanna tackle on the beach. We’re more pancakes on the couch while watching “This is Us” than going out kind of people. 🍷 We’re more adventures over things and less is really more kinda people. We’re fans of wine tastings that happen on the couch and church on Sunday mornings. 🛋 We let our dogs sleep under the covers and we list three things we’re thankful for every night before falling asleep. 🙏🏼 We’re small town folks with big dreams. We’re going places together and we’re still getting sand out of unmentionable places while we settle back into our little Midwest life. 👫 We are wildly filled with gratitude and excited for what’s to come. And yes, I love @kickingitwithkutch! (Have you seen how cute he is?) 🙋🏼 What’s the number one thing you look for in finding your partner in crime? Photo by: @mrslindseyroman
I crave a love so deep, the ocean would be jealous…. I also crave margaritas, carbs, smooshed noses and sloppy kisses. 🌊 It’s almost been a month since we got here and good heavens, time is flying by. I am so thankful we black out time to slow down and dream (and kiss!) Island life is good for my soul. 🙋🏼 We jumped in the ocean and splashed around and today @mrslindseyroman blogged our Hawaii sesh. Check it out and tell me what ya think!
Here’s to being the bigger person, and handling negativity with positivity. I honestly probably would have tried to mail a Horcrux to that person’s house.