80+ Love Affirmations To Help Banish Relationship-Sabotaging Self-Talk

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Does your love life need a jolt of good energy? Well, love affirmations can put you in a romantic mood. They’re also quite incredible for uplifting someone when it comes to matters of the heart. And if you’re already starting to stress about another thing on your to-do list, don’t worry; love affirmations can be simple. Really, they’re just spoken or written words that can confirm a romantic relationship or openly help state your intentions with someone.

In general, affirmations are something that you should incorporate into your life. More than just a buzz term, they’re positive statements that can help you overcome negative or self-sabotaging thoughts. Love affirmations, in particular, are extra special since they have the potential to help you attract your soulmate. How? By giving yourself a pep talk using affirmations, you’ll remind yourself that not only are you worthy of love, but you’re also an incredible catch. It’s mind-blowing to think about the power of positive thinking, isn’t it?

Even better, some people have a love language that’s all about words of affirmation. Sometimes, your partner will thrive when hearing them, and they can help strengthen your relationship. If that’s the case, it’s important to know what to say when the time comes.

Whether you’re on the lookout for love affirmations for a specific person or love affirmations for yourself, here are a few to help you get started.

Love Affirmations for Him

  1. “Your presence makes things better.”
  2. “Thank you so much for choosing me.”
  3. “Thank you for your endless support.”
  4. “I don’t know what I’d do without you.”
  5. “You’re the most important person in my life.”
  6. “I am so lucky to have you.”
  7. “I don’t know what I’d do without you by my side.”
  8. “I love you for all that you are.”
  9. “You’re my partner in life, forever and always.”
  10. “You’re the only person I ever want to be with.”
  11. “You’re the person who lights up my life.”
  12. “You’re all I ever wanted.”
  13. “I never believed in true love until I met you.”
  14. “You make me a stronger person.”
  15. “You make me want to do better every day.”
  16. “You’re my real-life Prince Charming.”
  17. “Your heart is safe with me.”
  18. “Thank you for all that you do to provide for us.”
  19. “You and I make an incredible team.”
  20. “I am so beyond grateful that someone like you chose to be with me.”
  21. “I wouldn’t want any other life than the one I am living with you.”
  22. “My feelings for you will always be strong.”
  23. “Together, you and I can do anything.”
  24. “I could never have done this without you.”
  25. “You are my rock.”
  26. “Your presence makes me happy.”
  27. “I look forward to holding your hand every time I see you.”
  28. “I love watching you strive for the things you want.”
  29. “I thank God for you every day.”
  30. “Thank you for always supporting me and my dreams.”
  31. “I feel incredibly safe when I am with you.”
  32. “You are always safe with me.”
  33. “You are one of the most important people in my life.”

Love Affirmations for a Specific Person

  1. “I am open to receiving love from you.”
  2. “Thanks to you, I am surrounded by love.”
  3. “I sense a divine love that’s connecting me with [specific person].”
  4. “I am grateful to have you in my life.”
  5. “You are proof that soulmates exist.”
  6. “You’re my other half.”
  7. “I hope you know how important you are.”
  8. “Meeting you was one of the best things I’ve ever done.”
  9. “I can barely put into words how much I love you.”
  10. “Life would be so much harder if you weren’t around.”
  11. “I could only be here right now thanks to your love and support.”
  12. “I am grateful that the universe let us meet.”
  13. “I am so happy for the chance to know you.”
  14. “I am deeply in love with you, [specific person].”
  15. “There has been a strong attraction between us from the moment we met.”
  16. “I will always believe in you and thank you so much for always believing in me.”
  17. “God couldn’t have given me a better partner.”
  18. “Thank you for everything you do around the house and with the kids.”
  19. “Our children are so blessed to have you as their parent.”
  20. “I always look forward to spending time with you. It makes me so excited.”
  21. “I don’t know what I’d do if you weren’t my best friend.”

Love Manifestation Affirmations

Sometimes, love affirmations need to be spoken out loud in order to be believed, or in order to fully come true. If you’re still looking for your soulmate, here are some love manifestation affirmations that may be helpful.

  1. “I give my heart, ready to receive the heart of another.”
  2. “I am worthy of love.”
  3. “I am ready to meet my soulmate and settle down.”
  4. “I am confident that the right person is out there for me.”
  5. “I am ready to make a change and try to meet someone who’ll be beneficial to my life.”
  6. “I am magnetic to those around me.”
  7. “My deep inner beauty can be seen in my smile and my level of confidence.”
  8. “I am ready for change, and I am ready for love.”
  9. “I am a beautiful person.”
  10. “It’s time I focus on myself and meet someone worth my time.”
  11. “I am a lovable person.”
  12. “I see love everywhere I go.”
  13. “I love deeply.”
  14. “Every life struggle has led me to the strength I’ve found today.”
  15. “It’s time to take control of my life and find true happiness.”
  16. “Someone out there is looking for me right now.”
  17. “I am beautiful, inside and out.”
  18. “I am stronger than my mistakes, and I’m stronger than my past.”
  19. “My past relationships don’t define me. Only I can define myself.”
  20. “I love myself, unconditionally.”
  21. “My perfect match is waiting for me to find them.”
  22. “My soulmate exists.”
  23. “I couldn’t do this without you.”
  24. “No one makes me [laugh as much as/feel as happy/feel as beautiful] as you do.”
  25. “Thanks for seeing what I need/needed.”
  26. “I love when we do something special together.”
  27. “You have the best sense of humor.”
  28. “Thank you for taking the time to do this with me.”
  29. “It must be so tough to deal with this. How can I help?”

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