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11 Gifts To Make You (And Your Partner) Feel Sexy AF For Christmas

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There’s nothing like a thoughtful gift you and your partner can both enjoy to really spice things up in your relationship. Whether you’re in a semi-new relationship or have been together for, like, ever, we all need help sometimes in the bedroom or in re-establishing an emotional connection. What better way to do that than through the gift of giving?

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Even if your love language isn’t giving and receiving gifts, nearly every couple can appreciate these fun and sexy gifts designed to be enjoyed together. Ready to give them a try and relight the spark? Keep reading for 10 of our favorite gifts for couples!

Dipsea Subscription

LET’S GET IT ON

BUY IT NOW

You and your S/O have already fallen in love with each other; now it’s time to fall in love with Dipsea… together. Dipsea is a tech company and story studio behind the first-ever audio platform for sexual wellness. It’s an app where users can download sexy AF stories. You’ll find narrative sexy stories (for listening together or separately!) and non-narrative guided pieces (to get you both in the mood or to get you in the mood for a little solo action). All of these stories are crafted to enhance intimacy (with both yourself and a partner), so it’s perfect for sexy time with bae.

I Like His Beard, I Like Her Butt Couples Funny Coffee Mug

CUTE, CHEEKY MUGS

$19.95 AT AMAZON

Sure, you like so much more than each other’s physical attributes. (At least, we hope.) But let’s be honest, these mugs are funny as f*ck.

Ohnut Set of 3

PAIN DURING SEX? NEVER AGAIN

$65 AT OHNUT.COM

No one should ever experience discomfort or pain during sex and with Ohnut, you or your partner will never have to ever again. Ohnut is an intimate wearable, designed to feel like skin, that helps couples manage and reduce pain during sex by allowing the users to customize how deep the penetration goes. Worn at the base of the penetrating partner, Ohnut’s BPA-, phthalate-, and latex-free polymer blend rings compress down to act as a soft buffer during sex. The set comes with four linking rings that make for easy adjustments; simply remove or add a ring until you reach ultimate comfort. Ohnut can help reduce pain during sex for people who experience endometriosis, pelvic floor dysfunction, fibroids, pelvic inflammation, cancer treatments, chronic pain, postpartum pain, and so much more.

Ablus DIY Photo Album Scrapbook Our Adventure Book

ADVENTURE IS OUT THERE!

$16.99 AT AMAZON

It’s straight out of Up — you know, that Disney-Pixar movie that made you cry during a 30-second scene with absolutely no dialogue? Carl and Ellie were the romance of a lifetime; fight me on it. Anyway, follow in the fictional couple’s adorable memory-making footsteps by buying an Our Adventure Book for your partner, just like the one in the movie.

Pillow Cases For Couples

NEVER GO TO SLEEP WITHOUT TEXTING “I LOVE YOU”

$28 AT AMAZON

If you’re one half of a couple with an excellent sense of humor, then these pillowcases might be the perfect gag gift that both of you can appreciate. It’s just the three of you — you, your partner, and your phone.

Tor II Vibrating Ring

FOR HIM AND FOR HER

$149 AT BABELAND

In general, sex toys are fun all around but a vibrating ring is the perfect gift for both parties. The Tor II offers simultaneous stimulation so nobody has to wait their turn. Everyone involved can get some, all at the same time, while not having to worry about their partner. With variable speeds and six vibration modes, both partners will be reaching for the ring in the bedside drawer. We guarantee it.

Sex Checks

KEEP THOSE BEDROOM BALANCES IN CHECK

$8.97 AT AMAZON

Whether you’re shy or adventurous in the bedroom, sex checks from the World Bank of Savings and Love is just what the sex therapist ordered. With fill-in-the-blanks options and check-box prompts, there’s space for those nervous to ask for what they want and there’s plenty of room to get creative all at the same time. Best of all, these checks don’t bounce or expire. Even still, you’ll want to cash ’em all ASAP.

Game Of Thrones Wine Glass Set

FOR THE COUPLE THAT LOVES GOT

$37.50 AT AMAZON

If you and your lover are into Game of Thrones and also into wine and scotch, then this I Drink and I Know Things highball and Mother of Dragons wine glass set was literally made for you. Forget winter. Wine is coming at the end of a long hard day and if there’s nothing better than pouring your respective drinks of choice and putting both your feet up on the coffee table while reliving GoT‘s last season, then this is the gift you should get each other this holidays season.

Advanced Onyx Ultra-Smooth Synergy Stone Hot Stone Massage Tools

BECOME A PROFESSIONAL MASSEUSE

$642 AT AMAZON

You don’t have to work at Massage Envy to steer your partner into massage bliss. All it takes is a little finger warmth and of course, this set of 10 smooth synergy hot stone massage tools. If you’re not sure how to give a good massage, even better. These stones are ultra-smooth and warm. In short, they do most of the work for you and your partner will be so impressed with your massaging skills, they’ll thank you for the rub-down in other (wink, wink) ways.

Edens Garden Aromance Aphrodisiac & Love Essential Oil Synergy Blend

FOR GETTING IN THE MOOD

$21.89 AT AMAZON

Sometimes we all need a little help getting in the mood. You don’t have to binge eat three bars of chocolate or choke down oysters to stir your libido. A few drops from these essential oil blends will do the sexy trick! Whether you diffuse throughout the room or apply topically, one sniff of these sexy scents and both you and your partner will be rearing to go.

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