Give Me A Break (Seriously, Please!)

17 Gifts For Moms Who Just Want To Sit The F Down

Give her a little something that encourages her to slow down and enjoy a few minutes of peace (and zero responsibility).

by Julie Sprankles
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Most of us aren’t going to turn our nose up at a pretty piece of jewelry or say no to a spa day. But if you really get to the heart of what most moms want, it’s pretty simple: to sit the f*ck down. Just for a minute. Maybe with a warm drink that we don’t have to reheat three times, maybe under a cozy blanket, definitely without someone saying “Mom? Mom? Mom” every 12 seconds (go ask your father).

While we love our families fiercely, sometimes we really do just need a tiny breather to collect ourselves. Or to stare blankly at the wall. So, if you’re shopping for a mom who is always moving and doing and running on fumes, think about gifting her something from this list. Hopefully, they’ll help her slow down, relax, and finally — finally — take a moment for herself.

Cozy Earth Channel Cuddle Blanket

Listen, every single tired, overstimulated mom deserves at least one splurgy blanket to snuggle up with for those rare moments she manages to steal away for a few minutes of peace. I love this Cozy Earth Channel Cuddle Blanket because it feels incredibly soft and luxe, and looks every bit as beautiful in person as it does in pictures.

Platterful Charcuterie Kit

Sometimes when a mom wants to sit TF down, she wants to sit TF down with some good company... and there’s nothing my best girls and I love more than an excuse to get together and tear up a charcuterie board. This Platterful Charcuterie Kit is genius because it takes all the guesswork out of creating a beautiful board. Everything comes portioned and curated — cheeses, meats, crackers, spreads, and fun extras like dried fruit or candied nuts — along with an instructional sheet and video tutorial. I was so impressed with my first box! All of the ingredients were so fresh and high-quality and delicious.

Laura Ashley Stainless Steel Electric Tea Kettle

OK, but seriously, how pretty is this Laura Ashley electric kettle? It’s such a lovely way to add a little whimsy to your tiny little stolen moments. The 1.7-liter capacity is perfect for making tea, coffee, or even hot cocoa for the whole family, and the automatic shut-off and boil-dry protection offer peace of mind in case you inevitably get distracted.

Revitalist15 Self-Heating Eye Masks

If you think a self-heating eye mask makes so much sense, well, for starters, it definitely does. But also, that tracks since a new (and also tired) mom created the brand with others like her in mind. The result is these beautifully packaged, individually wrapped eye masks that gently melt away tension around your eyes. The sandalwood scent is so divine, and at $25 for a set of five, they make such a great little affordable luxury gift.

On Me Curated Themed Gift Card

My motto has always been you can never go wrong with a gift card! If you know a mom in your life who needs a break, consider setting her up with a little something-something from On Me. I’m obsessed with how the gift cards are grouped by theme or interest (Know she loves coffee, but not sure from where? No problem!), and the fact that there’s a built-in function that allows you to send silly GIFs or memes with your cards — or as a thank you — is icing on the cake.

The Comfy Wearable Blanket

As someone who is chronically cold, I crave the comfort of something warm and fuzzy at all times. I’m a huge fan of The Comfy because it’s basically a blanket I can live in. The outside is super-soft fleece microfiber and the inside is fluffy sherpa, so it feels super cozy without being too much. The oversized fit, hood, and big front pocket round out the features that make it top-tier for lounging.

Day Off Trucker Hat

Would wearing this actually work? Would I, in fact, be able to just take the day off from the invisible load of motherhood? Probably not. But this hat from Uncommon James is really f*cking cute (say what you will about Kristin Cavallari, she’s always had style) and the quality is great, too, so I’m happy to just keep wearing it and hoping the message sinks in at some point.

Bali Breathe Sleepwear Robe

I know there are people out there who are like, “Don’t give moms robes — it’s boring!” But I’m here to say, Give me all the robes! I live in them. I wear them when I’m doing my makeup and don’t want to get dressed yet. I wear them on a lazy Saturday morning. I wear them over my nightgowns before bed. I love this Bali Breathe Sleepwear Robe because it’s lightweight, breathable, and incredibly soft... in other words, ideal for all the above activities. Plus, it’s really pretty (the lace sleeves are the perfect feminine detail), and it pairs so well with other soft-separate pieces from the collection.

Bose QuietComfort Ultra Headphones

Want true peace and quiet? The noise-cancellation with these headphones is next-level. They block out everything, and the immersive audio spatializes sound so it literally feels like the music is happening right in front of you. Super comfortable, they’re designed for long listening sessions, which you’ll undoubtedly enjoy thanks to all kinds of cool settings and customization options.

Minnetonka Sheepskin Ankle Boot

My god, these slippers are so unbelievably cozy and warm. The ankle collar can be worn high or folded down, and the soles are sturdy, so you can wear them for quick trips outside, too (it’s nice to be able to wear these to keep my feet warm lounging around inside, but also to walk out to the mailbox). Definitely follow the sizing instructions to make sure you get the right fit — once you do, you’ll be a fan for life. What makes me feel even better about wearing mine is Minnetonka’s dedication to sustainability and their ongoing work with Native American communities, including funding education, supporting Native artisans, and investing in organizations that preserve and uplift Indigenous culture.

Chroma Set of 4 Stemless Wine Glasses

Whether Mom is enjoying a cocktail or a sleepy-time mocktail, she deserves a beautiful vessel for whatever she’s drinking during her downtime. This Chroma stemless wine glass set has the prettiest ombre tint, with each one featuring a different color fade. Aesthetic, and they hold a generous pour? Sold.

Woxer Sleep Tee

Woxer is one of my favorite brands: They’re super inclusive, female-founded, Latina-owned, and their products are ethically made. I’m so happy they make sleepwear! The fabric is smooth, breathable, and just a little weightier than their underwear, so it feels elevated enough to lounge around the house in but still insanely comfy. Oh, and it’s tag-free, so no need to worry about that annoying you when you’re trying to chill.

Aloe Socks — 2 Pack

When you are on the go all the time, your feet tend to suffer a bit. My heels can get so cracked and dry; it’s uncomfortable and embarrassing! Not only are these Earth Therapeutics socks super cute, but they’re also practical — they’re infused with aloe vera and vitamin E to continually moisturize and pamper your feet.

All-New Velvetiser from Hotel Chocolat

I will never be too old to want to curl up with a cozy cup of hot chocolate, but ya know, I’m a grownup now — I need a grownup cup of hot chocolate. The Velvetiser feels like just the right indulgence. The vortex technology folds chocolate into milk, so you get that full-bodied, comforting finish you’d expect from a cafe: rich, velvety, and super smooth. It’s also great for matcha!

Completing The Puzzle

A gorgeous puzzle is a great way to steal a few minutes because your kids will be totally enraptured. Completing the Puzzle is brilliant because it’s the first-ever puzzle rental subscription where you can order high-quality puzzles, have them delivered to your door, and, well, basically have something guaranteed to keep your kid distracted for a little chunk of time every month.

Emily Henry 3-Book Set

A little escapism never hurt anyone! This dreamy set includes Book Lovers, Beach Read, and People We Meet on Vacation — three of the biggest hits from beloved author Emily Henry. Having them bundled together like this makes it so easy to fall into her world of witty banter, slow-burn romance, and engaging storytelling. Such an A+ bundle!

Hygge in a Box

Staahhhp, this little “Hygge in a Box” care package is adorable. It comes with a handmade crochet succulent (peep the message: “life would succ without you!”), organic handmade soap, a flower claw clip, organic peppermint tree lip balm, an organic soy wax candle, California orange crisps, a pair of cozy chenille socks, a jar of organic clay face mask, and a greeting card. It’s just so very thoughtful and sure to bring comfort, relaxation, and a little extra cheer.