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The Female Orgasm: Clitoris Is The Key!

August 22, 2017 Updated March 16, 2020

Madge the Vag talks to sex therapist, Dr. Ian Kerner, to get all the info on how to orgasm!  Did you know that 80% of women can’t achieve an orgasm from vaginal sex? It seems that sleep isn’t the only thing we might be missing out on. Madge the Vag finds out more about the female orgasm. Subscribe to Scary Mommy on YouTube.

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The powerhouse of the female orgasm is constant and persistent stimulation of the clitoris. Not only are orgasms achievable, but multiple orgasms are too! After a woman orgasms, the blood doesn’t flow out of the genitals as quickly as it does for men, which means that women don’t return to the pre-aroused state, but the semi-aroused state, making it easier to get to another orgasm. Beat that, fellas!

Dr. Kerner states that much of the reason women struggle with achieving orgasm is due to stress, anxiety, family issues, parenting, etc. It can be helpful to fantasize before and during sex to alleviate these mental intrusions that can dampen sexual arousal and interfere with orgasms.

Communication with your partner is very important when getting over the difficulty of achieving an orgasm. Talking about sex and using the right language triggers the process of arousal and will lead to the right kind of sex for your body. So talk about sex and get in a position that works for you.

Happy orgasms!

Series Description: Madge the Vag is a quirky mom on a mission to spread (literally) the word on everything vagina. She may have a 1950s wardrobe, but approaches women’s vaginal health in a refreshing way that is very today. Madge highlights a taboo topic or challenging issue many women face but may be afraid to talk about. She interviews experts on a range of topics like public hair, yeast infections and sex.

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