When it comes to how and why people want to become parents, everyone has different motivations and ideas — including those who are looking to adopt a child. While some would prefer to adopt a child that bears some physical resemblance to them, others simply want to become parents, and a child’s race or ethnicity is not a deciding factor. In situations like these, transracial adoption is an option. Here’s what prospective parents — and everyone else — should know about transracial adoption.
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What Is Transracial Adoption?
Transracial adoption — also sometimes referred to as “interracial adoption” — describes any situation in which a person or family adopts a child of a different race. And though you may not have heard the term before, transracial adoption is relatively common. In fact, a study conducted by the Institute for Family Studies found that 44 percent of the adopted children surveyed were adopted by parents of a different race. People who consider transracial adoption may do so for a number of reasons, including that they want to expand their family regardless of whether or not their adopted child looks like them, want to intentionally create a multicultural household, or would prefer to adopt internationally (though there certainly are domestic transracial adoptions as well).
The adoption process itself — in terms of finding an agency, submitting an application, etc. — is largely the same for transracial adoption. And like any type of adoption, if you’re considering transracial adoption, you’re going to need to do some research first, considering things like whether you want an open or closed adoption, whether you’re willing to start off fostering a child, whether you want to adopt domestically or internationally, and what type of agency is right for you.
What People Thinking About Transracial Adoption Should Consider
People considering transracial adoption should also make sure they’re prepared to deal with some of the unique challenges that come along with it. For example, AdoptUSKids has several suggestions for having a successful transracial adoption, including talking with your family and friends about it, finding mentors and role models for your child, acknowledging racism (pretending like it doesn’t exist doesn’t help anyone), making new connections in your community, and considering starting new family traditions.
Along the same lines, Alexis Oberdorfer, a social worker who grew up in a transracial home, suggests that people thinking about transracial adoption seriously consider their answers to the following questions:
- Will your child have other people in the community that look like them or will they be isolated?
- Do you have the ability to see your child as more important than you, enough so as to push you outside of your comfort zone?
- If you do not look like your child, how will you help your child develop positive self-esteem and racial identity?
- What activities do you genuinely engage in as a parent on a daily, weekly, monthly, or yearly basis that reflect your child’s ethnic origin, to help promote a connection?
- Do you have other people that can be adult role models or mentors to your child who are people of color of the same racial or ethnic background as your child?
- What is your knowledge of your child’s ethnic history, and how will you teach it?
- When your child no longer looks like a child and is in the community without you, will they know how to respond to situations that involve micro-aggressions, implicit racial bias, and other forms of racism?
- Will your child develop the capacity and be equipped to code switch?
Will I need a home study?
Yes, you will. Home studies are an integral part of nearly all adoptions so knowing what will be expected of you will help you prepare for what’s to come. Unlike what you see in movies (cough Life As We Know It cough) and TV shows, a home study is not just a quick interview with a social worker or agency rep in your living room.
On top of the home visits and interviews, a home study process will require adoptive parents to submit documents detailing their health and income. They will also need to draft autobiographical statements about their life to allow the social worker or agency to get to know them better. The home study will require background checks for members of the household over the age of 16 and three or four reference letters from family members and friends.
Of course, every family and situation is unique, but understanding some of the challenges and being prepared for when they arise can be helpful in cases of transracial adoption. As a parent, you want to do everything you can to give your child — adopted or not — their best chances to thrive and succeed.