80+ Relationship Questions That Will Deepen Your Love And Bond

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Whether you’ve just started dating or in an established relationship, getting to know your partner is crucial when it comes to the evolution and growth of your partnership. While spending time together is a great way to connect, a better way to understand who you’re dating (or married to) is by asking a lot of questions. Seriously, you can’t ask too many questions. It’s just not possible. Use our favorite relationship questions below to ignite deep discussions that will only deepen your bond.

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  1. If you’re having a bad day, would you want me to leave you alone or spend time with you and cheer you up?
  2. Do you remember the first thing you said to me when we met?
  3. What’s more important, sexual chemistry or spending time together?
  4. If you were convinced that I was making a bad decision, what would you do about it?
  5. Do you like babies/how many kids would you like to have someday?
  6. What would you prefer to do on a Saturday night?
  7. What’s your favorite thing about me?
  8. Are you happy with the time we spend together and apart?
  9. What is a relationship deal breaker for you?
  10. How many people have you been in love with?
  11. If you had one day left to live, what would you do?
  12. If you could trade lives with someone, who would it be?
  13. Where would you most like to go on vacation?
  14. What would you do if you won $10,000?
  15. What do you like best about me?
  16. What one thing would you like to change about me?
  17. Who was the first person you kissed?
  18. How do you feel about your exes?
  19. When do you think a person is ready for marriage?
  20. What’s the single most important thing for a relationship to be successful?
  21. What would you define as cheating?
  22. If I cheated on you, would you ever forgive me?
  23. How would you feel if I made more money than you?
  24. What’s your wildest sexual fantasy that you’d want to try with me?
  25. Would you feel insecure if I spent a lot of time at work?
  26. How many sexual partners have you had in the past?
  27. Given the choice of anyone in the world, who would you want as a dinner guest?
  28. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
  29. What would constitute a perfect day for you?
  30. Do you like spending time with my friends and family?
  31. How often do you think we should communicate during the day?
  32. How often do you think of me?
  33. When was the last time I was in your dreams?
  34. If we went to a store to buy a kitchen table and both of us liked different tables, how would we compromise?
  35. Do you think a couple’s finances should be together or separate?
  36. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
  37. Who’s your favorite family member?
  38. When life gets you down, how do you deal with it?
  39. What makes you feel most loved?
  40. How do you feel about being interrupted?
  41. How do you want to be treated when you’re down or depressed?
  42. Whose death would hit you the hardest?
  43. Would you take a more interesting job for a steep pay cut?
  44. What are some annoying habits of other couples that you don’t like?
  45. Would you rather give up social media or Netflix for a year?
  46. What do you think happens after you die?
  47. How do you express your creative side?
  48. If you could do anything for work and not worry about money, what would you do?
  49. What do you do when you can’t go to sleep?
  50. Who was your childhood best friend?

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  1. What’s your relationship with your parents like?
  2. Do you like being the center of the attention or prefer to stand back?
  3. What’s your idea of a romantic vacation?
  4. Are you friends with any of your exes?
  5. What’s your greatest fear?
  6. What’s your greatest strength?
  7. What’s your favorite movie?
  8. What’s your favorite book?
  9. What’s your favorite food?
  10. What’s your favorite color?
  11. What do you do when you have to have a hard conversation with someone?
  12. Where in world would you most like to visit?
  13. What’s your hidden talent?
  14. What was your favorite subject in school?
  15. When there’s nothing to eat in the fridge, what do you do?
  16. How important is physical chemistry to you?
  17. What is the best gift I could give you?
  18. What’s the main way you show your love?
  19. In an argument, whose side would you take, me or your mother?
  20. In a relationship, what would make you feel happier, sharing or sacrificing?
  21. Would you lie to make me happy and where would you draw the line?
  22. What’s your favorite holiday?
  23. What kind of parent do you think I would be?
  24. Would you say that I understand your feelings?
  25. What’s your favorite outdoor activity?
  26. What was your first impression about me?
  27. What’s the craziest thing you’d be willing to do for me?
  28. Which love song best describes our relationship?
  29. What’s been the most memorable experience of our relationship?
  30. What about our relationship makes you feel happy?
  31. What’s your biggest fear about our relationship?
  32. What question do you want to ask me but are too afraid to?
  33. What question are you hoping I ask you?
  34. What question are you hoping I never ask you?

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