Samm Davidson

Samm Davidson has been a regular writer and contributor at Scary Mommy since early 2022, focusing mostly on first person parenting essays.

Samm has dual bachelor's degrees in Sociology and Justice studies from the University of New Hampshire, and a Law Degree from Suffolk University. She worked briefly as an estate planning attorney after graduation before shifting to a career in social work, which felt closer to her heart. For the last ten years she has been at home with her now four children and currently works in her non-mom hours as a writer and lifestyle family photographer.

Samm is passionate about sharing her honest, raw, unfiltered truth about motherhood. She loves newborns, statement sunglasses, Justin Bieber, and a well-placed F bomb. She is a complicated introvert, giving most of her energy to her chaotic household but she is a foxhole chick. (She will die for you – but will likely not meet you for coffee.) She is currently working her way into the next stage of life beyond the years of babies – and while she is a little sad and nervous, she is hopeful for what is next.

hard pass

My Kid Looks Like A Teen & It Freaks Me Out

BySamm Davidson

My 10-year-old son looks more like a teenager than a preteen.

Wardrobe Refresh

5 Must-Have Summer Fashion Pieces For Moms Who Still Want To Look Cool

BySamm Davidson

Easy and low-lift, because it’s hot and we’re all tired.

I deserve it

5 Things I Bought Myself For My 40th Birthday As A Mom Of 4

BySamm Davidson

I bought things I wanted for myself — not my kids, not my husband — and it felt great. Here’s what I got.

super proud

Actually, My Kid LOVES Talking About Puberty

BySamm Davidson

My kid came home delighted to tell me everything.

all hands on deck

My Parents Are Young Grandparents & It’s Such A Gift

BySamm Davidson

My parents can keep up with my four kids without missing a beat.

late diagnosis

I Found Out I Have ADHD At 39

BySamm Davidson

My husband and two sons have it, so I thought I knew the signs. Turns out I was wrong.

make yourself a priority

I’ve Been Busy Taking Care Of Everyone Else & Now I Have 6 Friggin’ Cavities

BySamm Davidson

And I feel guilt and shame about it, on top of everything else.

party pooper?

I Wanna Have Fun, But I Just Don't Know How

BySamm Davidson

It’s not them. It’s most definitely me.

relaxing for all

The Completely Unexpected Way I Got My Kids To Open Up

BySamm Davidson

It started as me time, and morphed into our time.

Let loose

My Kids Loved Disney — But Not As Much As I Did

BySamm Davidson

I see what they mean about feeling like a kid again.

Something's gotta give

Can We Stop Inviting The Whole Class To The Birthday Party

BySamm Davidson

I don’t want to feel shamed into playing this party-scorekeeping game when I create my guest list.

underestimated the whole thing

I Knew Braces Were Expensive But Damn

BySamm Davidson

Maybe a little tooth crowding isn’t so bad?!

cage match

Is It Just My Kids, Or Are Easter Egg Hunts A Bloodbath?

BySamm Davidson

It’s the Hunger Games with bright plastic eggs.

we've all wondered

Wait, Is My Vagina Weird?

BySamm Davidson

I’m 40, and I still don’t know what’s normal!

Growing up

I So Wasn’t Prepared For This One Big Middle School Adjustment

BySamm Davidson

I got used to elementary school... then it all changed.

We're having fun

Well, We’re Going To Disney. Bring It On.

BySamm Davidson

I’ve gotta get my mind right before we do this thing.

those were the days

Snow Days In The 90s Were Just Better

BySamm Davidson

Waiting for my school’s name on that little ticker at the bottom of the TV... magic.

hard pass

Indoor Sports Season Is Hell

BySamm Davidson

The noise. God, the NOISE.

where'd they go?

Do Kids Even Have Playdates Anymore?

BySamm Davidson

Maybe packed schedules leave little room for low-stakes meet-ups.

not again

I Just Don’t See The Point Of Homework For Young Kids

BySamm Davidson

They are exhausted at the end of the school day, it’s the last thing they need.