Brianne Hogan

Hi, I’m Brianne. I write mostly Lifestyle stories for Scary Mommy, including health & wellness, and all things sex and relationships. I also like re-watching movies from the ‘90s and writing about them, which I’ve done with “Love, Actually” (which is terrible) and “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days” (which is still pretty great).

I graduated from NYU with a degree in Dramatic Literature, Theatre History & Cinema Studies. I didn’t know what to do with that either so I waitressed a lot until I wrote some off-off-off-Broadway plays. Some of which appeared in festivals in New York, Los Angeles, and Toronto. Then before I knew it, I was blogging for a living. Then blogging turned into freelance writing and a career that’s spanned over a decade, including a few temporary stops as an associate editor and a communications officer for a non-profit animal welfare organization.

My writing has appeared in over 50 online publications, including The Washington Post, the BBC, Elle Canada, and BuzzFeed. I’m also the author of two books published with Adams Media and Running Press, respectively

I have a black cat named Olive and six plants named after the Friends characters — that is, if I don’t kill them soon. The plants, not the cat. Although she probably would deserve it. (just kidding — she’s my world!)

https://www.linkedin.com/in/briannehogan/

Connection Over Perfection

Why A “Dead Bedroom” Isn’t The Relationship Death Sentence We’ve Been Told It Is

By Brianne Hogan

A drop in sex doesn’t automatically mean something is wrong, say experts.

Awk-ward

Does Your Dog Really Care If You Have Sex In Front Of It?

By Brianne Hogan

It’s hard not to wonder what your pet is thinking when they suddenly lock eyes with you at the worst possible moment.

A New Kind of Push Present

The Rise Of “Orgasmic Birth”: The Science Behind Pairing Labor Pain With Pleasure

By Brianne Hogan

If the idea makes you raise an eyebrow… you’re not alone. But here’s what the research actually says.

Space to Breathe

Would You Try The “Living Together Apart” Relationship Trend?

By Brianne Hogan

Separate homes, stronger love? Why more couples are saying no to cohabitation.

Hot Because He's Healed

Secure Attachment Is Sexy, & Benny Blanco Is Proof

By Brianne Hogan

Turns out, emotional intelligence and consistent communication are the biggest turn-ons.

Sexy or Just Sticky?

Would You Try “Vabbing”? TikTok’s Favorite DIY *Perfume* Trend Explained

By Brianne Hogan

Can dabbing vaginal fluid on your wrists and neck really boost attraction? Or is it just gross? We unpack the internet trend with a sex educator.

Total Betty

30 Years Ago, Clueless Gave Us An Icon Of Self-Assurance In Cher

By Brianne Hogan

I don’t think I ever fully appreciated her until I rewatched the movie as an adult.

When in doubt, don't send the text.

What Is “Fexting” In Relationships? Think Twice Before Firing Off Those Angry Messages

By Brianne Hogan

A psychologist weighs in with tips for “fighting fairly.”

Shhhhh

10 Quiet Sex Toys That’ll Make “Me Time” Super Discreet

By Brianne Hogan

The real challenge will be keeping yourself quiet.

Untimely Toots

Yep, Farting During Sex Is A Thing That Happens — Here’s Why

By Brianne Hogan

So this is... normal?

Expert Advice

Can You Take Plan B While Breastfeeding?

By Brianne Hogan

Here’s what an OB-GYN says you should know about your options.

For The Glass-Half-Empty Girlies

Prone To Anxiety, Stress, & Introversion? You May Be A Type D Personality

By Brianne Hogan

A therapist explains what that means and why it’s an important distinction.

Get That Bread

How Do You Parent & Have A Side Hustle Without Screwing Up Both? We Asked An Expert

By Brianne Hogan

Neha Ruch, mother, entrepreneur, and founder of Mother Untitled, shares tips for striking an actual balance.

Shaking Things Up

What’s A Unicorn In A Relationship? A Sexologist Breaks Down This Spicy Dating Dynamic

By Brianne Hogan

Start here before you go there.

The More You Know

Are You A “Type C” Personality? Here’s How You Can Tell, According To Therapists

By Brianne Hogan

If types A and B just don’t quite fit, you might just fall here.

A Healthy Start

What Is “Emotional Sobriety”? Experts Explain Why You Should Consider This Recovery Principle

By Brianne Hogan

If you’ve felt a little out of control at any point over the last few years (and honestly, who hasn’t?), read this.

Your Merry Must-Watch

Which Holiday Rom-Com You Should Watch, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

By Brianne Hogan

Here’s your holiday break movie pick, made easy.

The Big O(xytocin)

Is Sex Good For Stress Relief & Anxiety? Let’s Talk Science — & Positions

By Brianne Hogan

You might want to be stressed more often.

🎵 Let it go, Let it go 🎵

Why Farting In Front Of Your Partner Is Actually Good For Your Relationship

By Brianne Hogan

Holding things in rarely does any good, right?

Still Relatable

Pieces Of April Is The Best Thanksgiving Movie You Forgot To Watch

By Brianne Hogan

Family is complicated. So is cooking turkey. Both are usually worth the effort.